Kaycee

Thanks for letting us know about your invitation. Don't go. Your relative should understand that it would be inappropriate for you to attend a ceremony at a place where you had so many negative experiences. You can always send a small gift and decline to attend. At least that way you do not hurt your relationship with your relative. Even if the reception is held somewhere else you will still have to contend with people asking about your business, and being nosey. I hope everything works out for you. Kaycee