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These questions are to
help you get straight, specific answers from the Board members, as
opposed to the kind of vague rhetoric they have thus far given those
who have pressed in with them about this sad situation.
* Do
you still believe that the so-called “prophecies” given to
Elizabeth 5/1/03 were from God, and scripturally accurate? And did
you from 2003-2006 act in accordance with the perception that
Elizabeth, not you, was the one missing the mark?
* Do you agree that you
all were deceived, that John, Gary, and Karen were foolish in giving
Elizabeth the prophecies without even reading them, and that their
actions toward her greatly embarrassed the ministry and caused much
fallout?
*
Why was John fired (forced to resign) in January, 2005, and why have
you continued to justify that punitive action, given that you also
were blinded to the reality of the situation? Why did you give him
nothing in writing?
*
When and why did you revoke John’s ordination, and why did you give
him nothing in writing about why you did?
*
Why no mention to our supporters privately or publicly of what
happened with Mark and Karen Graeser? Is it really about legal
restraints? Aren't we to fear God rather than man? Isn't doing what
is right in the eyes of the Lord more important?
* Prior to John’s
December letter, what were the exact reasons why he could not be full
time with STF?
*
What exactly are the character flaws (and how did they show up in his
behavior) for which you fired John last January, and why did you give
him nothing in writing as to why you did?
*
Why did you have to be prompted about a plan of restoration for John
this year if you love him as you say you do, genuinely have his best
interests at heart, and are truly concerned with helping him with his
supposed character flaws?
* If
you believe in consequences for one's lack of wisdom and judgment,
what should your consequences be, given your years of blindness and
hurt to others?
* How do your actions line
up with the Word in terms of love, wisdom, redemption, aiding in
reconciling, and not being hypocritical?
*
Is the following paragraph an accurate depiction of how you could
have related to Elizabeth after she and John got back together? If
so, have you said anything close to that? If not, why?
"Elizabeth,
I was deceived. I thought you were the source of the problem. How I
dealt with you was based upon that misconception. I endorsed giving
you those horrible ‘prophecies’ without even reading them. I
played a major role in disgracing you in our fellowship community and
decimating your life for more than four years. Will you please
forgive me?"
If they say they have
acknowledged their sin, you might ask:
* How, specifically, have
you come close to evidencing the qualities of genuine repentance as
listed in:
2 Corinthians 7:11
See what this godly sorrow
has produced in you: what
-earnestness [spoude=to
exert a diligent effort with reference to the brevity of time],
-eagerness to clear
yourselves [apologia=a
reasoned statement or argument],
-indignation
[aganaktasis=vexation],
-alarm [phobos=dread,
as in the fear of doing something so wrong before God],
-longing [zelos=ardor
in pursuing something],
-concern
[epipothesis=vehement
desire, relentless longing],
-readiness to see
justice done [ekdikesis=vengeance
to right a wrong].
At every point you have
proved yourselves to be innocent in this matter.
* If indeed you truly
believe you were deceived, why did you not on your own come forward
and admit to Elizabeth your error in judgment? Why did you have to be
prompted by John to admit any fault and apologize?
* Why no compassion,
grace, or understanding toward John, but only repeated fault-finding
rather than forgiveness and mercy that triumphs over judgment?
* Given your preaching
about love, truth, courage, integrity, character, and humility, how
have you demonstrated that toward John & Elizabeth? If you
haven’t, isn’t that extremely hypocritical?
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