Hi Midnight, you guessed right!! I figured the lc would badmouth me, I told him I was moving to Michigan to be closer to my family & nothing he said would change my mind. That whole confrontation is what FINALLY opened my eyes to the fact that I had given over the control of my life & I decided to take it back. It was the best decision I had made in years!!!!!! He said some very nasty things & it was very difficult to be ignored by people who were suppose to be so loving. But I have moved on with my life and enjoying my freedom. I will email you.