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Becoming de-wayed is a process for sure. When I first departed from fellowships, I found myself alone and quiet on the sofa just shaking. I had become so accustomed to the constant intrusions and interruptions of daily life in the way that I had difficulty adjusting to being by myself ! So that couple who recently left will encounter awkward moments of quiet and alone-ness for awhile, but they will discover its WONDERFUL benefits ! And making mistakes ? In the Way, these were not allowed or you were put on exhibit ! But outside the Way, stuff happens and I don't always have an explanation. And sometimes---sometimes, mind you---- ( okay, often ) I make mistakes. However I am a responsible adult so I seek to rectify, repair, and minimize the extent of my screw-ups. I answer for them, but only to the proper authorities now and a God full of grace, mercy and forgiveness is at the top of that list ! That new couple out on their own will have to learn to live with making a few mistakes and realize that nobody else is keeping score. I'm thrilled they have the opportunity to live a more abundant life now....it's not too late !

Alittle over ten years PFAL in 1981 asked to be removed from the mailing list in 1991 WOW in 1982-3 Advanced Class in 1984 Performed in some Way Productions, but avoided being involved in Athletes of the Spirit by the Grace of God! Currently reading a book by David Brooks entitled " Bobos in Paradise " that captures the mood of the late seventies and early eighties that pointed me toward the Way: the ambitious, resume'- building, multitasking, social-networking attitude that brings attention and glory only to one's self. I sought something more. A fulfilling relationship with my Heavenly Father. Thought I found it in the research, teaching and fellowshipping ministry of the Way. I was wrong.

I'm discovering a whole new world here at Grease Spot. Here a variety exists of views and opinions, even doctrines. Sometimes I find this healing; other times disturbing. It's a raw world that exists without the detached WaySpeak I never used to question. People disagree here and I find this refreshing; not the conflict itself, but the opportunity to wrap my own mind around any issue I choose. There's nothing pre-determined here. There's no "us" and no " them." But there seem to be alot of people like me who don't quite "fit in" with the splinter groups, church groups, the neighborhood associations, the bar scenes, etc. Having walked away from it all cold turkey fifteen years ago, I never imagined there would ever be anything that would grab and hold my attention like Grease Spot Cafe. Thanks for the vision, the time and the energy invested to maintain and cultivate this site.........

Thank you for presenting info on TWI and CES. I have read only two or three of John's papers in the past and would not normally seek him out on these issues. But finding him here at the grease spot site made him "more accessible" and me more comfortable. I actually felt like he was talking to me ( and not at me ). He hit the mark several times over noting the grief, lack of trust, and emptiness leftover from years trying to "live the Word" 24/7 within such a legalistic and unforgiving environment. It's taking me years to wash these toxins out of my lifestyle. I applaud John's genuine concern and efforts to reach out and help.