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sharon

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  1. Who needs Wallyworld, Sam's Club, eBay etc when ya got PAWN SHOPS?

    PAWN SHOPS RULE!!!!

    Of course I agree wholeheartley! IMHO, the best time to buy from pawnshop is in June (parents flock to our store trying to dump instruments that the kids never really played).

    If you'd like pm me what your looking for and I can get on the horn(yuk yuk) with your local pawn shop and see if I can't work a deal, as we pay 35-50$ for either instrument.

  2. I was with my first husband for 16 years. we grew up together, he was my best friend and my brother (which is not a good quality for a husband). When I stood before G-d and Elvis (another story,another time) I was convinced I was going to stay married till the day I died, but as Meatloaf so wonderfully phrased it:

    "I was praying for the end of time to hurry up and arrive cause if I had to spend another minute with him, I didn't think that I could really survive"

    So all the little things that people who are in love do for each other, the things that make a marriage work we didn't do. That was no way to live not for me and not for my ex-husband, at that point I was a lousy wife, I didn't want to cook for him because then I would have to eat with him and I didn't want to spend that much time with him. I hated going out with him I just didn't want to be around him.

    So I left. Would it have been better for my boys if I had stayed with their father? I don't think so, because being a lousy wife I also wasn't the best mother.

    I have remarried and it is what marriage is supposed to be, not a "Harlequin Romance" novel, but 2 people who not only love each other but actually LIKE each other. Yes, Jeffrey and I fight, but the kids see two adults disagree and come to some type of resolution. instead of Mommy slamming doors and Dad cursing and leaving.

    I do not regret my 1st marriage, I have 2 wonderful boys and I kept all of my in-laws, and David (1st husband) helped make me the person I am today. David agrees we are better parents and partners because of what we went through.

    I do have to admit my divorce is uncommon, my ex-husband works with Jeffrey and me, and we spend a great deal of time together, (I often comment it's as if we never got divorced, I see David everyday, I still balance his check book, we still fight about his girlfriends and we still don't have sex).

    When we split up, David and I (after the screaming was over) sat down and remembered that at one time we were friends and with some work maybe we could be that again. I am happy to say that David is once again someone who I am proud to say is my friend, someone I love like a brother.

    I love being married now, I love being with my Jeffrey and I thank G-d everyday that I had the gumption to divorce David, and to allow myself the opportunity to be happy.

  3. And then I know that all I've learned, my kid assumes.

    And all my deepest worries must be his cartoons.

    And still I'll try to tell him all the things I've done,

    relating to what he can do when he becomes a man.

    And still he'll sticks his fingers in the fan. :dance:

  4. Hey you forgot some essential tools~~~

    butter knife~works as a screw driver and a lock pick

    high heel shoe~~(who needs a hammer)

    and the most important ~~~duct tape

    which does everything from hemming jeans to weather proofing windows :wink2:

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