How hard would it be for me to leave? Very. My husband is in an very active. He is fully supportive of TWI and doesn't listen to anything taht I would say different. We have three children. I have just stopped arguing and follow along. I do as little as possible, which issues critism from my husband. Knowing him the way I do, if I were to leave, it would be the end of my marriage. I would probably lose my children as well. So I continue just be quiet in the background. When my kids are on their own, I think I will make some changes, but I can't just don't know yet.