If I were confronted with the same situation in which you now find yourself, I would go to the Father and seek His will in the matter. Asking people for their will for your situation is your choice. Thankfully, Jesus Christ always did his Father's Will. He knew that in every situation in his life, because he asked. We are exhorted to do the same.
God usually prefers us to be in the midst of lost souls, so that, as His sons and daughters, we can have a Godly effect on the lives of others, by giving them words to believe.
And, remember, you will be spending eternity with these folks! I've heard Rosalie Rivenbark speak in tongues, so she'll be there, too.
