We only started blowing off leadership when I went back to collage. My wife had to fend off the "why isn't your husband at fellowship" question all the time. She responded that the requirements for a student were to have to only go to fellowship once a week, and since I was a student, thats what I was doing. We got grief for that, because some idiot thought it meant only for kids in collage, not us adults (I was 41 when I returned). What a bunch of morons!
Hey Chas, BTW, we'll be moving back to NH in May! We can't wait to GTFOOB. (Get the F*&^ out of Buffalo!)