When it is taught and practiced that love is obedience what the heck do you expect? . . . OBEY!!
Oh! . . . Says here Narcissists prefer fear, obedience and admiration over love and likability. Due to the inferiority complex and paranoia. I wonder if these matters have a connection . . .
https://www.routledge.com/World-Hunger/Collins/p/book/9781853834936?gclid=CjwKCAjwoZWHBhBgEiwAiMN66ftDfvzAnmtDEnVc3hVZKt2xDFxTsJyCzEy6BBnEpAUUKxkvFTruExoCGmMQAvD_BwE
Written in 98 but that's where I got the idea