hope,
i suppose the short answer to your question is no, i do not always follow the rules. i routinely drive 5-10 miles per hour over the speed limit because i know that is what the speed limit really is suppose to be. incidentally, i haven't got a ticket in over 5 years.
ofcourse, when you ask a question that contains always or never it usually precludes an honest person answering affirmatively. for all my shortcomings and human frailties, i would hope that i am an honest person. i think the larger question for me is am i living my life ethically-which for me means am i being true to core values and principles. you know, the ideals that are at the heart of all religions...humility, compassion, justice, forgiveness and integrity.
i find by living by those ideals that i have no problems with authority. however, i am also aware that we are a much more just society today because some brave people violated the rules and even laws of their day because those laws were in conflict with their conscience. the signers of the declaration of independence, henry david thoreau, rosa parks, martin luther king are just a few examples of people who were willing to endure the cosequences or their actions with a view toward bringing about true justice.
robin