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  1. Dear George,

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    Happy Happy Birthday,

    And many happy returns for the kindness you have brought into the world.

    Watchman Nee is my all-time favorite writer, and it's his carefully detailed and quiet mind which is able to capture so many of the little nuances of Jesus Christ, of scripture, and of life in general which won my heart.

    (How I relate to your perception of the greatest of art forms)

    Hope not only your cake but your all-around life is sweet and enjoyable and present-able.

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    Happy birthday,

    Fred and Kit Sober

    Reno NV

  2. Been praying for you.

    Hope you're doing fine.

    Hopefully,

    Kit Sober

    Reno NV

    p.s. YOu are welcome to send extra rain to Reno. Nevada can always use rain. It's really dry here, now, and the threat of fires is always high in the summertime.

  3. It's been said some of the most fearful words one could here are: "Hello, I'm from the government, and I'm here to help.". Ha. Ha.

    Enjoy.

    Jokes About The IRS...

    1. Post Office just recalled their newest stamps:

    They had pictures of IRS agents on them, and people couldn't figure out which side to spit on.

    2. If a lawyer and an IRS agent were both drowning, and you could only save one of them, would you go to lunch or read the newspaper?

    3. What do you call 25 I.R.S. agents buried up to their chins in cement? Not enough cement.

    4. What do you call 25 skydiving I.R.S. agents?

    Skeet.

    5. What do you throw to a drowning I.R.S. agent?

    His co-workers.

    6. What's brown and looks really good on an I.R.S. agent? A Doberman.

    7. What's the difference between an I.R.S. agent and a mosquito?

    One is a bloodsucking parasite, the other is an insect.

    Internal Revenue Service Theme Song

    Tax his cow, Tax his goat;

    Tax his pants, Tax his coat;

    Tax his crop, Tax his work;

    Tax his ties, Tax his shirt;

    Tax his chew, Tax his smoke

    Teach him taxing is no joke.

    Tax his tractor, Tax his mule;

    Tell him, Taxing is the rule.

    Tax his oil, Tax his gas

    Tax his notes, Tax his cash

    Tax him good and let him know,

    That after taxes, he has no dough.

    If he hollers, Tax him more;

    Tax him till he's good and sore.

    Tax his coffin, Tax his grave,

    Tax his sod in which he's laid.

    Put these words upon his tomb,

    "Taxes drove him to his doom."

    After he's gone, we won't relax.

    We'll still collect inheritance tax.

  4. Kit Sober

    A GreaseSpot Regular

    (2/9/02 6:27:49 pm)

    Reply

    Cheyenne Blair

    Cheyenne was 59. Died on November 3, 2001, of heart failure after a long illness.

    Survived by four children: DeWayne, Michael, Michelle and Vicki. 3 granddaughters.

    He & ex (Gloria) were in F7 during 1980-81.

    After leaving F7, he resided in the Evansville Indiana area since 1984. He had served in the Army during the Vietnam era and was very proud of the armed forces, especially the response of the country during/after both the Gulf War and the Sept 11th terrorist attack.

    He was cremated and final resting place to yet be determined by the children.

    You are welcome to contact Cheyenne's family through his son, Michael at Kurgan1017@aol.com

    Linda Z

    Awarded the Silver Mug

    (2/10/02 11:09:55 am)

    Reply Re: Cheyenne Blair

    What sad news.

    Thank you, Kit, for letting us know and providing his son's e-mail address.

    Cheyenne was a good man. I remember his wonderful laugh and generous heart.

    Thank God for His promise and our Hope.

    Linda Z

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  5. Hills Bro

    Spins on the stools

    (11/21/01 6:16:47 pm)

    Reply

    ezSupporter

    A Broker in a Wet Suit- Brett Bailey

    A Broker in a Wet Suit

    Having spent his teenage years near the ocean in Bricktown, N.J., Brett T. Bailey seemed to pass whole seasons wearing a wet suit — whether it was winter, spring, summer or fall. "It was hard to get him out of the water," said his father, Kevin Bailey. "He loved surfing. He loved swimming. He loved anything athletic. He was very playful."Mr. Bailey, 28, worked as a lifeguard when he was a teenager but there was little question that after college he would become a broker, like his father and three uncles before him.

    "The financial world is kind of in his blood," Kevin Bailey said. He worked on the floor of the New York Stock Exchange before taking a job as an options broker three years ago with Euro Brokers in 2 World Trade Center.

    Mr. Bailey was a determined athlete. He started the summer with a 26 handicap in golf. By September, his handicap was down to 19. "That tells you what he was like when he set his mind to something," said his father. "But one of the most interesting things about Brett was his ability to make friends very quickly, almost upon meeting them. He had such a diverse group of friends. From the New England fisherman to the Wall Street broker, they were all equal to him." Profile published in THE NEW YORK TIMES on November 20, 2001.

    Rafael Olmeda

    Loves the Grits

    (11/21/01 6:34:55 pm)

    Reply Re: A Broker in a Wet Suit- Brett Bailey

    Thank you for sharing this, Hills.

    excathedra

    Awarded the GSC Golden Mug

    (11/21/01 6:46:57 pm)

    Reply

    ezSupporter

    Re: A Broker in a Wet Suit- Brett Bailey

    OH hills

    i'm going to start a thread in a minute, maybe you've heard about the quilt

    love,

    ex

    Kit Sober

    A GreaseSpot Regular

    (11/22/01 5:08:36 pm)

    Reply

    Re: A Broker in a Wet Suit- Brett Bailey

    jezusfreaky1

    Stayed until Midnight yesterday

    (11/23/01 9:13:55 am)

    Reply Hills.........

    (((((((((((((((Hills)))))))))))))))))))))))

    Love you!

    -Freaky

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  6. evanpyle

    Stayed until Midnight yesterday

    (5/29/01 6:33:25 pm)

    Reply

    Very sad news re: Lou Polk

    Lou Polk (aka Lucius Polk) died last night. The why and how is still not clearly understood but it is thought to be hepatitis-related leading to liver failure.

    He leaves behind a wife (Marcia) and two precious teenaged daughters, Andrea & Amberley.

    I'm sorry to bring this tragic news...please pray for those he leaves behind...

    Grizz Bear

    Stayed until Midnight yesterday

    (5/29/01 7:02:42 pm)

    Reply

    ezSupporter

    Re: Very sad news re: Lou Polk

    Ana and I are very saddened by this news…………….we look forward to the time when the last enemy shall be destroyed……………death certainly has a big sting now……..we will see our brother again when we are gathered………..we will continue to pray for his family and loved ones………..We only knew him here in cyber-world and he was a dear friend to us………………

    Could some one e-mail Ana or I and tell us where we may send our condolences to the family?

    bear with a *tude* Grizz

    outandabout

    Likes Ketchup on Everything

    (5/29/01 7:33:31 pm)

    Reply

    Re: Very sad news re: Lou Polk

    I am so sad to learn that. I used to go to his twig in San Diego. I remember at the time that their girls were just little tykes. As a matter of fact, the last time I saw him was to tell him (in 198 that I was leaving TWI.

    He was very gracious about it....he was always loving and sweet to be around.

    I am really sorry to hear this sad news.

    Ex10

    Likes Ketchup on Everything

    (5/29/01 7:34:01 pm)

    Reply Re: Very sad news re: Lou Polk

    Oh my gosh.

    I'm so very sad to hear this. He will be dearly missed.

    Our family will be praying for his.

    Robi

    Unscrews the pepper shaker tops

    (5/29/01 7:34:13 pm)

    Reply

    Re: Very sad news re: Lou Polk

    Lou Recently sent me some pictures of himself and his family, along with a gift.

    He had a terrific heart and never held back the love that he had there. He spent much time encouraging and building me up.

    I will miss my friend greatly, and I will pray for his wonderful family.

    I am only comforted by the fact that I will see my brother again, when we meet in the air.

    Bye, Rev. Meshi...you were loved.

    with tears,

    Robi

    Robi

    Unscrews the pepper shaker tops

    (5/29/01 7:36:53 pm)

    Reply

    Re: Very sad news re: Lou Polk

    By the way, some people may not know Lou by his real name, but surely will know him by his chat room handle, "Meshiboleth".

    What a joy he was whenever he was there.

    Robi

    evanpyle

    Stayed until Midnight yesterday

    (5/29/01 8:17:39 pm)

    Reply Re: Very sad news re: Lou Polk

    OK, just talked with (wife) Marcia...who is heartbroken to say the least. The funeral is Friday, 4pm, Davis Greenlawn Mem. Chapel, Richmond TX. The funeral home number is 281-341-8800.

    Andrea graduates high school Saturday night...without her Daddy...

    The Polk's address is 9234 Sharpview, Houston TX 77036

    shellon

    Hasn't gotten sick once from the food

    (5/29/01 8:41:17 pm)

    Reply

    Saddened

    Evan;

    Please pass on my heartfelt thoughts and condolances to Marcia and their daughters.

    I will continue to pray! I got to know Mesh in the chatroom and enjoyed his humor, and his strength no matter what. He'll be missed!

    Shellon North and family

    chinson

    Hasn't gotten sick once from the food

    (5/29/01 8:44:24 pm)

    Reply

    Mesh

    My heart and prayers are with his family. He will be very sorely missed. I'd tease him bout the line he'd say when dinner was ready, 'Wife says, eat it or wear it' Will be prayin for his wife and daughters fervently over the next few months.

    He was a great cyber-pal, am greatly saddened by his passing.

    So long, Mesh...until we meet again...

    Chinny

    GarthP2000

    Hasn't gotten sick once from the food

    (5/29/01 9:01:19 pm)

    Reply

    Re: Mesh

    So sorry to hear about Mesh's passing.

    Altho' I didn't know the man very well, I agree along with everyone else here that he contributed a lot to Greasespot (and Waydale as well), as well as to the ministering to those who were outcast from TWI.

    See you at the Return, bro, when death no longer has its sting over you.

    Cheers to you,

    GarthP

    ArkieRon

    Likes the Lunch Menu

    (5/29/01 9:05:09 pm)

    Reply Re: Very sad news re: Lou Polk

    From the heart of one very young, yet very wise...

    The rose stands alone,

    in the star - speckled deep,

    as our beloved petals fall,

    we begin to weep,

    as another petal falls,

    our hearts shatter at the sight,

    all our hope is gone,

    there seems never to be light,

    but we have forgotten a most important thing,

    that is the love of our everlasting king,

    when Jesus comes back, God will gather our lost loves,

    then we'll all be safe and happy in the sky up above.

    Nora Steiger

    3-12-97

    Age 10

    VerticalLimit1

    Grease Spot Cafe Discoverer

    (5/29/01 9:10:12 pm)

    Reply Lou Polk

    Lou strengthened me and many of us when he and his family was in Cinci. I sometimes think of his big heart for God and easy going manner. My love to His family always.

    Clay

    Mandii

    She who gives good tips

    (5/29/01 9:11:12 pm)

    Reply

    Re: Mesh

    Meshi, Meshi, Meshi, a wonderful man, who was gifted with a great sense of humor.

    Our last dance in the chatroom was just that..the last for now...

    My prayers are with his family. God grant them the comfort that only He can give at such a time.

    God bless you Lou and until ....

    Mandii

    Psalm 71 one

    Polishes the silverware

    (5/29/01 9:23:18 pm)

    Reply

    Re: Mesh

    OH Lou!! I will miss you so much my brother! I am having such a hard time with typing this.

    I loved you and marcia so much -- you and Marcia belived in me at a very low time in my life in Cincinnatti. -- you guys took me into your home and loved me and helped me get back on my feet again.

    Death is such an enemy. And Marcia-- I am sooo saddened for you, my friend-- I know you are devistated by this, and Andrea and Amberley. MY prayers are with all of you-- he was such a good man.

    I love you all

    Carol

    rockyrococo45

    Grease Spot Breakfast Regular

    (5/29/01 10:07:13 pm)

    Reply Re: Mesh

    If Marcia reads this, I too, share in your grief. So many years ago, but I knew Lucius in Phoenix and Emporia.

    He was one of a kind. And in context of our shared experience, that he also had been ordained, it is good to remember he was not like many other twi rev's (greasespot company excluded).

    My prayers also with your family. Marcia, I know you were such a comfort to him. You have friends here who pray for you and your daughters.

    hiway29

    Sampled the Breakfast Special

    (5/29/01 10:09:17 pm)

    Reply Re: Mesh

    This is sad news indeed. I lived with the Polks for a year back in '87. I had just moved to San Diego, and as was the custom of the times, looked around for some Way folk to live with. Unfortunately this was the year when everything was blowing up, and I was drifting away. By the time I moved out I think everyone was happy.

    Nothing but good memories of Lou. He had a huge heart, and loved his family.

    I hadn't seen or heard from then since the day I moved out, and regret that we had issues concerning the way. I didn't know that was Lou in here. Sometimes these nicknames seem ridiculous, tho I understand it.

    My prayers for Marcia, Andrea, and Amberly.

    socks

    Likes juice squeezed not shaken

    (5/29/01 10:29:27 pm)

    Reply

    Re: Very sad news re: Lou Polk

    I'm very sorry to hear that, Evan. We extend our sympathies along with everyone else to his family. It's been many, many years since I've spoken to him or Marcia. When I saw his name I felt good, then bad because the news wasn't going to be good. His daughters must be great kids. We send our love and condolences for their great loss. Till then...

    John

    Mark Sanguinetti

    Stayed until Midnight yesterday

    (5/29/01 11:17:51 pm)

    Reply

    Very sad news regarding Lucius Polk

    I think I may have taken the PFAL class, both of us for the first time, back in approx. November of 1973. This was on a house boat in Sausalito, California. If this is the same man and name that I knew. I remember he had a great heart for God and a love for God's people. He will be missed by his friends and family. They really moved God's people around quite a bit in that crazy organization.

    1 Thess 4:13-18

    13 Brothers, we do not want you to be ignorant about those who fall asleep, or to grieve like the rest of men, who have no hope. 14 We believe that Jesus died and rose again and so we believe that God will bring with Jesus those who have fallen asleep in him. 15 According to the Lord's own word, we tell you that we who are still alive, who are left till the coming of the Lord, will certainly not precede those who have fallen asleep. 16 For the Lord himself will come down from heaven, with a loud command, with the voice of the archangel and with the trumpet call of God, and the dead in Christ will rise first. 17 After that, we who are still alive and are left will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And so we will be with the Lord forever. 18 Therefore encourage each other with these words.

    NIV

    We have a great hope in the future coming of our Lord Jesus. I am sure that our friend and brother Lucius believed these words. May his wife and children be comforted by God and his Word at this difficult time.

    logizomai

    Read Menu, Afraid to Order

    (5/30/01 12:00:35 am)

    Reply

    Saddened

    I played guitar with Lou back in '82 in Phoneix, AZ along with Helen Suddeth (aka Joyful Noise) and Danny Stephens. We got to play together at various times and it was alot of fun. He was a real warm hearted fellow and Marcia was a real sweatheart to all. At the time they were Branch Cord. and everyone loved them for their genuine service.

    My condolences to Marcia & the family. See you at the gathering brother.

    deecline

    Had Fries with Gravy last night

    (5/30/01 4:04:57 am)

    Reply

    Meshi

    Marcia, my heart goes out to you and your daughters, you all are in my prayers.

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    Grease Spot Breakfast Regular

    (5/30/01 6:13:20 am)

    Reply

    Re: Meshi

    This is very sad news indeed. I only knew Meshi through cyberspace, but greatly enjoyed his sense of humor in the chat room and in his posts.

    I don't understand everything. But I am certain of this: Death will eventually be destroyed, we will all be reunited, and God will dry every tear.

    Until then, he will be sorely missed.

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  7. pjroberge

    Stayed until Midnight yesterday

    (6/19/01 4:52:26 pm)

    Reply

    Mark Narodi from Long Island has Passed Away

    Jim asked me to post this for him as he is very distraught...

    I am sorry to announce that my nephew died a few hours ago , Mark was a wonderful Man and will be missed . He was 40 years old and had a massive Heart Attack . I understand it was over quickly .

    He left my niece and no children . My mother in law is taking this very hard as is the rest of the family .

    Please remember my family in prayer .

    Jim Martin

    freedabeme

    Likes the Lunch Menu

    (6/19/01 7:32:44 pm)

    Reply

    Dear Jim

    The sudden death of Mark is tragic,

    hard to understand, and difficult to deal

    with, mostly for those who remain that were close to him.

    So for those who loved him the most - my

    prayers are for you and them.

    truly,

    your friend in prayer,

    Jeff W.

    whatsagirltodo

    Had Fries with Gravy last night

    (6/20/01 1:54:27 am)

    Reply

    Dear Jim

    I'm sorry to hear about your loss. I will pray for you and your family. May God give you peace in your time of need.

    Kit Sober

    A GreaseSpot Regular

    (6/20/01 7:32:41 am)

    Reply

    In Honor of Mark Narodi

    Dear Jim and family,

    With you are our prayers and affection, our sympathy and condolence to help assuage your grief.

    Such a loss to the world. One less person to love you.

    A comfort I find in grief is the reflection of love because the ability of the heart to grieve is a healing activity of life God gave.

    The grief and the empty place Mark has left is a tribute to the love and goodness he gave into the world during his too brief life.

    True tragedies -- (1) a person who cannot grieve (2) a life not mourned at death.

    Sincerely,

    In Hope,

    Fred and Kit Sober

    Reno NV

    Danny Mahar

    Needs glasses -- Thinks the cook is cute

    (6/20/01 8:20:05 pm)

    Reply

    Re: Mark Narodi from Long Island has Passed Away

    My condolences to you and your family, Jim, for the untimely passing of your nephew.

    Danny

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  8. sher2121

    Sampled the Breakfast Special

    (10/16/01 5:50:08 pm)

    Reply James M. Ruhl

    I miss my friend Jim so much. He has been a big inspiration in my life. He took me under his

    wing spiritually when I was growing in God?s love. He helped me to get my first good paying

    job. He was always there to listen to me whenever I needed him to.

    He helped me when I needed it, whether it was babysitting, helping me move or coming to get me when my car broke down. He helped me grow in so many ways. When I was asked to replace him in his position at work I was so overwhelmed and apprehensive at first and he always encouraged me and told me that I could do it.

    Whenever things seemed hopeless for me he always told me that God would provide. This man was one of the most kind and gentle human beings that I have ever known. I will forever miss the dinners with his family, driving to fellowships, joking around at work and just generally being in his presence.

    This wonderful man of God is sorely missed by many

    people.

    James M. Ruhl

    May 1942 to July 2001

    Kit Sober

    A GreaseSpot Regular

    (10/17/01 1:25:14 am)

    Reply

    Re: James M. Ruhl

    In sympathy for the loss of your friend.

    That fathomless bond

    The depth of which is shown by the grief

    Of the one left behind!

    Friendship is a two way street,

    Where the love of two 1's meet.

    And in that bond of affection

    (the sweet connection)

    Both 1's become more complete.

    How sweet!

    My heart goes out to you,

    In sympathy.

    God bless you always,

    in all ways,

    all your days,

    Kit Sober

    Reno NV

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  9. Pat Rifino - Awaiting the Return

    From WayDale as well as Greasespot Cafe, location 1

    framerST

    WayDale Citizen

    (9/24/00 9:33:04 pm)

    Pat Rufino - Awaiting the Return

    Pat Rufino fell asleep on September 12, 2000. Her funeral was held on September 14, 2000 in West Palm Beach, FL.

    engine

    WayDale Citizen

    (9/24/00 9:31:28 pm)

    Reply Re: Sad news to report

    Ohhhhhh shoot.

    I was going to look her up a while back, too.

    It makes me so sad to hear that...she was in the tenth corps for a bit with me. She will always be remembered by me as a woman with a lot of heart and depth and love.

    This makes me very sad. My condolences to her family. This is a loss to all.

    Rob

    Ex10th

    WayDale Citizen

    (9/24/00 9:37:48 pm)

    Reply Re: Sad news to report

    I'm very sorry to hear this news. Many condolences to her family and friends. She was a good-hearted person who brought joy to many she knew.

    Groucho Marx jr

    WayDale Citizen

    (9/25/00 12:53:42 am)

    Reply

    Re: Pat Rufino - Awaiting the Return

    My condolences to Pat's family and loved ones...I knew Pat, she had a great heart...I am saddened...

    Ryebred

    WayDale Citizen

    (9/25/00 9:04:21 am)

    Reply Re: Pat Rufino - Awaiting the Return

    I'm so sorry to hear of Pat's death. I knew her well a long time ago. We shared many laughs together. We knew each other in New York... visited her house in Bayside...ended up working together when we out "WOW" together to Wisconsin...

    Her warmth, her laughter, her wild woman sense of humor...her Italian names for things!...are what always come to mind when I think of her.

    I'm sorry that I didn't have the opportunity to say hello to her again.

    Please, anyone who is in touch with any of her family let them know how sorry we are to learn of her death and how much we cared for her... and how much she gave to everyone.

    with deepest sympathy, BB Wylie

    HopeRich

    WayDale Citizen

    (9/25/00 2:45:52 pm)

    Reply

    Re: Pat Rufino - Awaiting the Return

    Oh my God - Toots - I can't believe it. Pat & I took the PFAL class together in 1971.

    (BTW - I think it's spelled Rifino... I remember her name tag!)

    A few years ago, . . . . she left TWI - but since we were on opposite sides of the state and I had no way to contact her, I never saw her again. Now I will not see her until the return.

    What a shocker.

    Hope R.

    ToadFriend

    WayDale Citizen

    (9/25/00 8:18:12 pm)

    Reply Pat Rifino

    I remember Pat from when I was out Lightbearers in Oklahoma City or Denver....I know, it's terrible I can't remember which, but all those travels in the Corps and as WOWs sort of meld together after all these years...she fixed us all a wonderful Italian dinner and was a most gracious, funny, and loving hostess....I love forward to seeing her at the gathering together!

    TF

    Tovah

    WayDale Citizen

    (10/3/00 10:12:05 pm)

    Reply Re: Pat Rifino

    Pat & I were very close. She was out spoken to a fault. If she saw anything unjust, she would call it as she saw it. She was very loving & gave selflessly. If anybody needed anything, she was there.

    Pat was THE most under appreciated person that I've ever known. I believed that she must've intimidated her so called "leadership" when she remained in way world, many years longer than she should have. She spoke the truth. Many people can't handle being told the truth.

    Its ironic that she was excommunicated for the same thing that I admired her for. She just stuck up for those who didn't know how to open their mouths. May the world be ready for my dear Pat, next time around. Thank you for how much you touched my heart.

    I'll never forget you.

    xwafer

    Grease Spot Cafe Discoverer

    (4/10/01 9:01:07 pm)

    Reply Re: Pat Rifino - Awating the Return

    My heart aches at this news. A beautiful light has left this earth. May she shine on for all of eternity.

    Pat was one of the most significant people in my life during my Way days. She rescued me from the clutches of some messed-up leadership during my interim corps assignment. She showered me with God's love in so many ways, a healing balm. I loved being in her presence, hearing her wonderful giggles, that smile, always up to something.

    Pat was a very generous person, a friend to those in need.

    Compassionate, loving, kind........you are sorely missed, my sister in the Lord.

    engine

    Knows the Waitress's name

    (10/8/01 10:20:46 pm)

    Reply Re: Pat Rifino - Awating the Return

    I meant to post this about 6 months ago?

    I found her obit online in the Palm Beach Post, and from there got the number for who I was guessing and hoping was her Mother in West Palm Beach. Well, it was.

    She was Pat's adoptive Mother, and she was very kind. She didn't really know who I was; but I explained that I was in the tenth corps with Pat, and then she told me about how and why Pat died.

    I won't go into it here. But it was sad. And I think Pat felt lonely.

    Sadly, I had had it on my heart to look her up about a year or 6 months before she died. See, I had always liked her, and I just forgot that she was down here around me.

    Someone made a post on Waydale that she was down here in south Florida and that's when I remembered seeing her and Pam Lover around 1989 when John Lynn was doing his travelling thing.

    I regret never having called her and having hooked up with her. I don't know that we would have ever hung out, but then, heck, I don't know that we wouldn't have.

    But that's not the point. The point is this: any of you people out there got it on your heart to look someone up then go ahead an do it.

    Don't let the distractions of this world pull you away so much that you miss out on simple, loving things like this.

    She was a great gal, and was loved by her Mother very much.

    I have fond memories of her.

    Rob

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  10. Still Blessed

    Read Menu, Afraid to Order

    (4/5/02 11:13:00 am)

    Reply Cheryl Marcolini

    Cheryl fell asleep sometime on Tuesday April 2. She was a very wonderful person. She had a special quality about her that her love for God enhanced. She will be missed.

    Prayers to her husband, children and other loved ones.

    Radar OReilly

    Spins on the stools

    (4/6/02 9:15:15 pm)

    Reply

    Re: Cheryl Marcolini

    I am incredibly crushed. She was a wonderful woman, friend, wife and mother.

    This makes me hate the way even more, I should have been able to be there.

    Radar

    Radar OReilly

    Spins on the stools

    (4/7/02 9:28:34 am)

    Reply

    Re: Cheryl Marcolini

    Stillblessed,

    If you can, please, please click on my name and send me an email.

    Thanks,

    Radar

    alfakat

    Awarded the Tin Cup

    (4/7/02 11:27:09 am)

    Reply

    ezSupporter

    Re: Cheryl Marcolini

    my wife would appreciate it if you could email us , also, stillblessed. Clicking on our name gives our email.

    thanks

    webegone2

    Read Menu, Afraid to Order

    (5/5/02 12:03:07 am)

    Reply Re: Cheryl Marcolini

    This news is too sad. I was friends with Cheryl, her husband and son. Does anyone have more information? Has anyone been in touch with her husband? I was in the WC with him as well as on staff at HQ. I knew them well until they went on the field. My heart hurts.

    Midnightfun

    Knows the Waitress's name

    (5/11/02 1:15:45 pm)

    Reply Re: Cheryl Marcolini

    Webegone2,

    Please e-mail me.

    Kit Sober

    Condolences and sympathy to Cheryl's family and friends.

    Fred and Kit Sober

    Reno NV

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  11. Robi

    Most Likely to Post in ME ME ME

    (8/20/01 1:59:59 pm)

    Reply

    In Memory of Pete Klee, Burned 6/13/2001, Died 8/16/2001

    Most know of Pete's horrible burn on June 13, 2001. He fought for his life for 63 days at the University Hospital Burn Center in Columbia, Missouri.

    As the one year anniversary of the house fire and burn that changed so many of our lives, I'd like to take a moment to celebrate his life and remember all who helped me through those two months and the months following. Thank you all so very much. The following is from his original In Memoriam thread and I will leave it intact:

    This post is copied from another thread. The wonderful threads are scattered around and I wanted the story in one place, which Paw can move to the Memorial Forum in a few days. Thank you, Pawtucket, for being so patient with me and allowing so many to support me and my family at such a terrible time.

    I will never forget the love and prayers from all of my brothers and sisters here. Thank you for that gift. The two months I stayed at Pete's side were the most precious of my life. I wish you all could have known Pete. I rest knowing he was loved by many who never met him, but who will when we are gathered together.

    Here is the post I copied, written August 17th, I think:

    Re: To Our Courageous Sister, Robi

    Thank you everyone, for your love and tenderness at this time.

    I went home to Georgia Sunday evening and put my children to bed for the first time in 3 weeks. I was in bed, asleep for just one hour before they called me to tell me Pete was doing worse and they were doing everything they could.

    I sent my kids to school Monday morning, then went to my sister's divorce trial. I did not get to testify on Monday, but had to come back to it on Tuesday morning. The judge graciously allowed my mother and I to testify early and we did...then we left and got on a plane.

    We arrived Tuesday evening to find my brother had rallied a bit and that gave my mother hope. The nurse that loved Pete so much, Kerri, cried and told me she was afraid he'd already had a lack of oxygen to his brain...which would indicate brain damage. However, the doctor told my mother he wasn't ready to give up. This was Dr. Terry, an excellent physician who was covering for Dr. Lentz. My mother began thinking Pete might get well...

    Wednesday as we arrived at the hospital thinking it would be another routine day (as routine as it can be in this situation) and found the doctors and nurses scrambling to help Pete. Evidently, he had just had a major drop in blood pressure, which in turn caused him to not perfuse enough oxygen. His oxygen saturation continued to drop as did his blood pressure...they worked so hard to fix it. They did everything...and I could see how they loved Pete. Because they let us stay and watch, we were able to be with Pete until the end...that was our gift.

    Normally, families would be ushered out of a room as they frantically tried to save a patient. They allowed us to be a part of his care. I brushed Pete's teeth, washed his face, held his hand, and loved on him until the very end. I sang to him...'I Come To The Garden Alone' 'Peace, Peace' and 'Got Any Rivers'.

    When I saw his heart slowing down, I instructed the nurse to not waste another unit of blood on him (he has had over 60 units of blood throughout this). Then I asked them to turn off the epinephrine drip...because I knew that was all that was keeping his heart beating. When they did that, the doctor turned off the ventilator.

    Before Pete died, I was able to tell him, "Sleep well, sweet brother. I will be there when you wake up."

    Many of the nurses, doctors, and other staff members cried with us as we said goodbye to Pete. They hugged us and comforted us. Several of them came in on their time off and visited with us. They all loved him. I loved them all. Even the other family members of patients in the unit stopped by and offered their love and prayers. Several family members of patients who had already been transferred off the unit came back to visit and pray with us. God saw to it that I was not alone, but rather, well taken care of. I no longer believe angels are spiritual beings but instead are people just like you and me who have God's love in them to give. I was surrounded by angels.

    My deepest gratitude to all of you who loved me and Pete. Your prayers, emails, letters, cards, and visits have meant so much to me, especially when I was alone in this. But I was never alone, was I? And God let me know that. Thank you.

    We will have a memorial service tomorrow at my sister's church in the Kansas City area (Crossroads Baptist, 638 W. Jefferson, Grain Valley, Mo.). We will also have one in Georgia for the other side of the family. I will do the service, I believe...but I haven't decided what to say. I'm sure I will know when I need to. My mother and I requested an autopsy, not for our benefit, but so the doctors and students at the university hospital will learn from Pete. He would have wanted that. He would want them to learn something. Because of his fungal infection and overwhelming sepsis, he was not a candidate to donate to the medical school...but at least this way he can help them in some way. The pathology students will study what burns do to the body and what the fungus did to the inside of Pete's body.

    Pete leaves behind a loving mother, Loretta; step-father, Jack; step-mother, Jackie; a brother Jeff; sisters Robi, Dana, Kathie, Stephanie, Samantha. He leaves a devastated and loving son, Stephen and daughter, Lyndsey. He was a loving uncle to Leila, Marlena, Merideth, Morgan and Morgan, Rashid, Matt, Michael, Gary, and Cory. Pete was loved by many...and will be missed by so many more.

    The family requests that those who loved Pete become organ, tissue, and blood donors.

    lovingly,

    Robi

    Lifted Up

    Most Likely to Post in ME ME ME

    (8/20/01 2:12:26 pm)

    Reply In Memory of Pete

    There is one thing I can do after all, as I have found out....but the purpose of "In Memory" is to have the tears followed by smiles for a life lived, and I can do that too.

    One thing I am pretty sure I will remember is Pete's birthday...I didn't know it before...as I have a some with the same birthday (28 years later).

    LuvMyRottieGrrl

    Had Fries with Gravy last night

    (8/20/01 2:22:57 pm)

    Reply Re: In Memory of Pete

    Robi I don't even know you but I had tears pouring down reading this. I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry.

    ...the soul of a man is revealed by the way he treats his dog...

    Robi

    Most Likely to Post in ME ME ME

    (8/20/01 2:38:35 pm)

    Reply

    Pete's Memorial Service

    I wanted to share Pete's Memorial Service with you...we did one in the Kansas City area for the family that is there.

    It was done at my sister's church (Dana is her name). The pastor of the church led in an opening prayer...then he allowed me to do the memorial service.

    I spoke of how many loved Pete...how he made so many laugh. I talked of his loving, giving heart. He'd give his last dime and the shoes off his feet for someone who needed it. He would cry when animals were hurt. He couldn't tolerate pain in his heart...yet his heart was so tender he was hurt often.

    I taught from Isaiah...'they that wait upon the Lord, shall renew their strength,' and the verses before that (Isaiah 40:28-31). I taught from I John 3:1,2 about how God loves us...and how we have passed from death unto life (verse 14).

    I spoke of the time I spent with Pete in the hospital...how I was angry and not understanding why God would allow him to live for a short period of time, only to allow him to die later. I told everyone how I had a chance to sit with Pete, when he was able to understand a little, and teach him about being saved...and then I knew why God had spared him in the beginning. God made sure Pete had time to come to terms with his life, and with his eternal life.

    When I spent time with Pete teaching him Romans 10:9 & 10, and talking about being together with him at the gathering, I saw tears running down his cheeks. It was the only way God could show me that Pete heard me and believed. God made sure I knew.

    I told everyone how Pete loved to make others laugh, and that a fitting memorial for him would not be right without laughter...so I read some of the last funny jokes and stories that were emailed to him.

    I mentioned how loving and supportive so many had been with their phone calls and emails (I have a three inch binder that is overflowing with emails)...and how I'd read each one to Pete. I told Pete's son how much he'd loved his daily emails recounting his activities and love for his dad.

    I told everyone about the wonderful "strangers" who wrote Pete almost everyday, visited him, and called about him...people whom Pete had come to love, I am sure...and whom I had certainly come to love...Rick, Krysylis, Lifted Up, Karl, Steven, Jack, Shellon, Ron, Reece, Jim, Lauren, Becky, Gary, Carol, Barb, Tom, Mike, Judy, Don...and others. I told them about those who'd sent phone cards so I could keep in touch with the family, and who'd sent plane ticket vouchers so I could visit (I will send the vouchers back since I will not be needing them now...but thank you).

    I spoke of all the other family members in the critical care waiting room and how we had become a family...pulling for each other, praying for each other, crying with each other. I told my family how there were so many people who went out of their way to visit and pray for Pete...people who knew me even less than you all do, but were driven by the Godly love in their hearts to take care of me and Pete.

    I told them that I no longer believed that angels were "spiritual" beings only, because I know that many of the people I encountered were angels...and yet I could physically touch them. They were "spiritual" by way of holy spirit because they were people "acting" as angels, via the love of God in their heart's, in our time of need. Does that make sense?

    I read several of the songs I had sung to Pete at his bedside as I cared for him...because there was no way I could have sang them without breaking down. "Peace, Peace" "Got Any Rivers" and "I Come To The Garden Alone".

    I read and taught about the Hope, our Hope, in Thessalonians...and told them we'd see him again...without the brokendown body, without the pain in our hearts, without all the physical things that hold us back. I told them it would be a joyful time for us all to reunite...and that we'd see Pete smiling again.

    I read an email from my other brother, one I had just come to know as an adult (I saw him last when he was 13). It was a loving tribute to his 'big brother'. I read an email that my sister in Florida had written...one that said, "Oh, Pete, before you go....I just wanted to tell you how much we love you." I thought it was sweet...because she knows she will see him again and was just saying, "so long."

    His friend, Jo, read something she'd prepared...and shared how much Pete loved and received joy from his children. She spoke of how precious he was to her. She is a beautiful woman and I am sorry I cannot call her a sister by marriage...but I always will call her a sister in Christ.

    I told them what I told my brother every night...that we loved him. I then told them what I told my brother for the last time..."Goodnight, sweet brother. I will see you when you wake up."

    I had a prayer, thanking God for His wonderful grace and mercy...and thanking Him for caring for my brother...I thanked God for the time we would all be together again...loving each other and Him.

    The pastor then came and spoke of God's Grace and how it was not because we are so good...but because God is so good. At my request, he and his wife then sang "Amazing Grace" (another song I sang to Pete most nights), and closed with another prayer.

    It was a beautiful memorial...not stuffy, not sad, and done, not a stranger, but a sister who loved him dearly.

    We will have another memorial tribute for Pete in Macon, Georgia Saturday so the remainder of his family can attend and help 'celebrate' Pete 'home'.

    Again, deep love and thanks to all of you who have made this more bearable. I will never forget your love and prayers. I am humbled.

    with love,

    Robi

    waygone

    Likes the eggs Scrambled and runny

    (8/20/01 4:18:36 pm)

    Reply Re: Pete's Memorial Service

    Robi -

    At such a time - sorrow for another's loss can never be adequately expressed in words.

    Please know I am heartfully sorry - and know that I admire the courage of Pete and your family over the past months.

    Peace be with you and may God hold you and your family in the hallow of His hand in the months yet to come.

    Waygone

    gadams

    Knows the Waitress's name

    (8/20/01 6:14:46 pm)

    Reply Pete

    Rejoice...........Rejoice.......my sister...for the day will come again and we WILL meet Him in the air and then we shall all gather together and WoW what a day that will be......... hang in there sis..

    MacAbby

    Stayed until Midnight yesterday

    (8/20/01 6:49:54 pm)

    Reply Re: Pete

    My deepest sympathy for such a great loss to you and your family. May God comfort you in this time of sorrow.

    In His Love,

    AZ123

    Kit Sober

    A GreaseSpot Regular

    (8/20/01 9:13:49 pm)

    Reply

    Re: In Memory, Pete Klee, December 7, 1961 - August 16, 2001

    To Family and friends of Dear Precious Pete,

    He came into our life on a prayer

    And on my knees, I met him there.

    His kindness was shown,

    As one of God's own.

    To us he was a brother, a friend,

    A father, a son, a most precious one.

    And as we live the life he gave,

    His love will not be squandered, but saved.

    His life lives on in our heart,

    (From there he will never depart.)

    I pray each begins new,

    With a remembrance that God loves you,

    And through all eternity He knows what to do,

    And this day's sorrows, He is able to handle, too.

    God bless you always,

    in all ways,

    All your days,

    Fred and Kit Sober

    Reno NV

    scarlette belle

    Sampled the Breakfast Special

    (8/20/01 11:27:30 pm)

    Reply In Memory, Pete Klee, December 7, 1961 - August 16, 2001

    Robi, you did a great job -- no one could have done better, and certainly with more heart.

    Again, I'm so very sorry for your loss.

    ChasUFarley

    Only likes sourdough

    (8/21/01 9:30:35 pm)

    Reply Robi...

    Our deepest sympathy to you and your family at this time....

    (((ROBI)))

    Love,

    K & J

    Dannyboy

    Sampled the Breakfast Special

    (8/22/01 3:17:41 pm)

    Reply Re: Robi...

    So sorry for your loss...I too know from my father dying three years ago, I will be there when he wakes up too. What a loving thing to say and feel.

    May God bless you richly and comfort you at this time of sorrow Robi.

    chinson

    Likes Ketchup on Everything

    (8/22/01 4:38:07 pm)

    Reply Re: Robi...

    Robi,

    My children and I prayed constantly for Pete....I know our prayers did something...even if it was just to give him enough time to be born again and hear your voice when you spoke of the hope of christ's return.

    Robi, my two sons were involved in a situation where they were playing with fire...I read them your posts of what Pete went through, talked to them of the seriousness of what they did...and grounded them for a week. Pete's story touched them...so he has saved two little boys he never knew, just by his example.

    My children saw me crying as I read your posts just now, they asked me what was wrong...when I told them what had happened...we all stopped what we were doing and prayed for you and your family and the doctors and nurses and anyone connected with Pete. We prayed for healing, peace, and the knowledge that God was working and is working in every situation that SEEMS impossible.

    Our love and prayers have been and will continue to be with you.

    With love and prayers,

    Chinson and kids

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  12. oneyedjackswild1

    Eats dessert first

    (4/30/02 5:09:25 pm)

    Reply CHIEF DAVE

    To my friend Chief Dave...

    Went to see the Great Spirit...

    And to you my Friend... Later...

    oejw1

    excathedra

    Awarded a 2nd Golden Mug

    (5/3/02 1:39:24 pm)

    Reply

    ezSupporter

    Re: CHIEF DAVE

    so sorry oejw1

    later dave, any friend of jack's is a friend of mine

    Kit sober

    In the Bible (both old and new testaments), there is only one David. Now there are many, and in my mind's eye I see each David today as a drop of golden sunshine into the world.

    My sympathy and condolence for the loss of your friend

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  13. oneyedjackswild1

    loves tabasco

    (4/19/02 4:08:16 pm)

    Reply BONNIE HOPKINS/2002

    SEE YA LATER MON AMI.....

    OEJW1

    Kit Sober

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    A spouse who dies leaves behind a widow or a widower.

    When parents die, their children may be called orphans.

    But when a friend dies, language is silent.

    There is no single word to express the loss of a friend.

    My sympathy and condolence,

    to Bonnie's family and friends,

    Kit Sober

    currently in Reno NV

    soon in heaven

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  14. Kit Sober

    A GreaseSpot Regular

    (2/21/02 11:41:27 pm)

    Reply

    A pearl of great price

    The pearl of great price is so precious.

    Daniel Pearl was one of those unknown soldiers, the journalists. Without their battle of words, without their getting the information and getting it to people in other parts of the world, people would continue to lie in ignorance and apathy over the inhumane treatment of the Taliban and other terrorists.

    And it appears that indeed he gave his life in that battle.

    Indeed the sacrifice of Daniel Pearl's life has helped, and will continue to help many people know the truth of the wickedness of this enemy against which we fight.

    President Bush has promised that the murder of Daniel Pearl would only further strengthen the resolve of good people to abolish terrorism in the world.

    Condolences and sympathy to the family and colleagues.

    Kit Sober

    Reno NV

    Gingertea

    Awarded a 2nd Golden Mug

    (2/22/02 12:02:43 pm)

    Reply

    ezSupporter

    Re: A pearl of great price

    So tragic...

    I can't imagine how ~ but I hope with all my heart we stop this evil wreaking mayhem and slaughter upon our humanity ~

    I'm sorry for this tragic suffering and loss...

    Thank you Kit for your beautiful rememberance of this very Dear, Special Man ~

    Ginger

    Stephanie Dopp

    Sampled the Breakfast Special

    (2/22/02 2:29:56 pm)

    Reply Re: A pearl of great price

    Praying for Daniel Pearl's widow and first born child.

    Daniel Pearl was sacrificed because he was Jewish. He was an American who allowed others freedom of religion and enjoyed his rights to worship as his concience directed.

    So much killing and death has been attributed to the worship of God. If one person doesn't worship the way another decides is the only way, sooner or later somebody gets hurt.

    We have been so blessed with a country that allows us to worship God. This is a country worth fighting for till the end.

    The murder of Daniel Pearl was barbaric and evil. Those involved in this kidnapping and murder will answer to the United States, the world and ultimately to God Almighty. They are without excuse.

    Our God is the author of justice.

    Rafael Olmeda

    Nominated for Golden Mug

    (2/25/02 4:58:31 pm)

    Reply Re: A pearl of great price

    I picture Daniel Pearl being welcomed to the finest table at Windows on the World to moderate a healthy and hilarious debate between Barbara Olson and David Angell.

    Sigh.

    Kit Sober

    Dear Rafael,

    Indeed heaven is a place of all the goodness God loves. That's why it's called heaven.

    Hopefully,

    Kit Sober

    currently Reno NV

    Soon to be in heaven.

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    [This message was edited by Kit Sober on July 27, 2002 at 12:19.]

  15. vickieann411

    Sampled the Breakfast Special

    (5/28/02 9:36:30 pm)

    Reply Patricia Celley

    Today, my Aunt Pat died. I was with her and holding her hand. Life can be so bittersweet .... twi took her away from me for 4 years.

    This past winter we were able to settle our hearts and become family again. I had her for a very few short months. My heart is broken. The way that she died was the same way my mom died 21 years ago. Aunt Pat was also the spitting image of my mom. It is like I had to live it all over again. I can't stop crying and feeling so much anger at the people who convinced her I was bad and full of devil spirits.

    Please pray for my heart and thinking to be healed quickly.

    Vickie (V777)

    excathedra

    Awarded a 2nd Golden Mug

    (5/29/02 1:54:24 am)

    Reply

    ezSupporter

    Re: Patricia Celley

    dear vickie, i am so so sorry and i promise i'll pray

    Gingertea

    Awarded a 2nd Golden Mug

    (5/29/02 7:37:57 am)

    Reply

    ezSupporter

    Re: Patricia Celley

    Dear Vicki

    My deepest sympathy and condolences to you during this sad time.

    Your words touched me deeply, as does the anquish you feel right now. I sense in these wounds, your feelings of great loss.

    May your precious 'soul' heal at it's pace and own time and know I care and am here, if you need another shoulder.

    Take time to care for yourself through this grief and the trying days ahead.

    Please keep in touch about how you are doing, if that's okay ~

    Ginger

    Kit Sober

    You are in our prayers,

    But most of all in God's cares.

    Hopefully,

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  16. Dear nknative,

    Thank you for letting us be part of your life.

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    As birds flight show the pattern of the wind on which they ride, so the prayers of God's people show the pattern of Holy Spirit's love.

    You and your family also are in my prayers always upon every remembrance.

    God bless you always, in all ways, all your days,

    Kit Sober

    Praying with and for you

    in Reno NV

  17. Dear Digitalis

    Home is a palace

    Where you grace the place.

    Your grace is praise

    For God's goodness.

    Also with you is our prayers

    for your ease and comfort.

    God bless you always,

    In all ways,

    All your days,

    Kit Sober

    praying with and for you,

    in Reno NV

    Kit Sober

  18. This came from a Prayer Warrior in Arizona

    Folks,,,You may have heard about the fires burning in Arzona.

    They were about 8 miles apart but now have merged.

    This has already burned three small towns in North Eastern Arizona..This area is primarily made up of retirement folks with a mix of people who have summer homes there...and then families who have lived there all of their lives.

    Tonight...they had to evacuate the entire town of

    Showlow...this amounts to 30,000 people who had to leave their homes ... not knowing when they will be allowed to return...or if they will have anything to return to.

    Yesterday, one of the Chiefs from the Navajo Reservation made an announcement that their people will begin to do their rain dances around the clock....

    At the present time, 160,000 acres have burned.

    Please pray with us about this fire? Prayer and the attending miracles are needed now.

    Also, we aren't just talking about people who are in that area....but animals also .... hundreds of horses and farm animals as well as the people who had their house pets.

    The big race track down here in Phoenix sent horse trailers up to try and rescue some of the horses...and will house them at the track FREE all summer long...

    The Humane Society has already run out of space for the cats and dogs..now people here in Phx. are taking them into their own homes.

    The patients from the hospitals and nursing homes had to be transferred to Phoenix...it must be very frightening for those folks.

    It is totally impossible to get into the town of Showlow as all the roads leading into and out of are closed... I sat here tonight thinking about the magnitude of what is happening and we are only talking about a town of 30,000 just think how it would have been if the town had been a larger one. I think about ALL the businesses that had to just close and lock up....and then leave town...

    Thanks for your prayers.

    Kit Sober

  19. Dear L.W.,

    You are not alone in the destruction of your hopes and dreams, your future.

    You are also not alone in the hopelessness that creeps and crawls over your spirit. But this Greasespot Cafe and other places have helped others also overcome

    Hopefully,

    Kit Sober

    Reno NV

    Kit Sober

  20. Daggoo

    Sampled the Breakfast Special

    (8/11/01 12:37:54 pm)

    Reply

    Karin Skillibeck Morgan

    My dear friend

    excathedra

    Likes Ketchup on Everything

    (8/13/01 2:29:44 pm)

    Reply Re:

    Karin Skillibeck Morgan

    is your dear friend the beautiful blonde haired girl who rode horses and was married to max?

    moreyt

    Likes the Lunch Menu

    (8/13/01 6:21:32 pm)

    Reply Karen Morgan

    --------------------------------------------------------------------------------

    Yes, she was married to Max. They met while students in Lexington, Kentucky.

    Great lady!

    excathedra

    Polishes the silverware

    (8/14/01 4:19:02 pm)

    Reply Re: Karen Morgan

    oh, i'm so sorry.

    Danny Mahar

    Unscrews the pepper shaker tops

    (8/16/01 8:58:10 pm)

    Reply

    Re: Karen Morgan

    Is this the Karen Morgan formerly of Wallingford, CT. ?

    Perhaps I'm mistaken.

    Danny

    Condolences to her family and friends.

    Kit Sober

    Reno NV

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    Kit Sober

  21. alfakat

    Likes the eggs Scrambled and runny

    (2/11/02 12:37:36 pm)

    Reply

    ezSupporter

    Jim Stutz

    I know very few details...he died recently. He and Kathy were living in Fresno, CA.

    Rejoice

    Asks for extra pickles

    (2/11/02 3:39:48 pm)

    Reply

    Jim Stutz

    Alfakat; how did you hear and how recent? Jim isn't very old so it can't be "natural causes". I think he was 8th Corps???

    I e-mailed him last year as he had a bookstore as well as a cell phone business.

    engine

    Knows the Waitress's name

    (2/13/02 1:33:12 am)

    Reply Re: Jim Stutz

    Oh, dear.

    Good guy.

    rob

    alfakat

    Likes the eggs Scrambled and runny

    (2/13/02 12:28:58 pm)

    Reply

    ezSupporter

    Re: Jim Stutz

    I heard from someone I have known for a long time whose family had kept in touch with Jim and Kathy. And yes, it was very recent.

    I would prefer not to say any more because I don't have any other confirmed information.

    excathedra

    Awarded a 2nd Golden Mug

    (2/14/02 9:16:43 pm)

    Reply

    ezSupporter

    Re: Jim Stutz

    have been too sad to post a response

    Cal K

    Sampled the Breakfast Special

    (3/7/02 5:14:02 pm)

    Reply Dear Jim

    Yes, I have heard the terrible news also from someone who is close to them still.

    Anyone that knew Jim knew that he was a wonderful man with such a big heart for God and people. I was very young when I knew him. He was my 1st Branch Coordinator.

    I will remember him always and regret not having seen him in these last 10 years.

    God Bless his family.

    Cal K

    pawtucket

    Head Dish Washer

    (3/7/02 7:16:03 pm)

    Reply

    ezSupporter

    Re: Dear Jim

    This is indeed sad. I spent Thanksgiving with him and number of other folks a few years ago. He was a very nice man as was his family..

    He did have a Christian mail order bookstore and sold cellular phones. I remember having an extensive discussion about Nextel cell phones with him...

    zzzwaze

    Likes the Lunch Menu

    (3/7/02 9:45:36 pm)

    Reply remembering Jim

    This is sad news. I met Jim for the 1st time in April 1981 at a Region Meeting in Mass. I sat through a PFAL promo that he ran, and found out that he was my Limb Coordinator in NH. One of my fondest memories of spending time with him had to be that year's New Years Eve. Since I went to a twig just a couple of miles from the Limb, our twig was invited to spend the evening over his and Kathy's.

    I remember that we all just hung out, no "meeting" or ritual, unlike twi of later years. He was into music, and thats where I first heard Pressed Down, and a bunch of the early music that was so much a part of early twi.

    But he didn't just stick to ministry stuff. He played early Led Zep stuff- you know, the bluesy stuff (Dazed and Confused, etc) amoungst other music of the day. I found Jim to be down to earth, understanding and patient, a reflection of the twig I was in, much unlike the legalistic and anal retentive twi of later years.

    I hadn't seen he or Kathy since they moved out of NH onto their next assignment, and then I found out they left during the "fog" years. He will be fondy remembered and even more greatly missed.

    Cal K

    Sampled the Breakfast Special

    (3/7/02 11:09:33 pm)

    Reply Jim

    Yes zz, Though I was only around Jim for about 2 years he did seem like what you are describing. He was real laid back and enjoyed life. I remember him having the Branch lidten to the theme song for "Flash Dance" which was big back in the 80's."Take your passion , and make it happen"...gosh I can't remember the lyrics right now though I've known them for years! Well, that's what turning 40 will do ta you!

    Jim was a great guy. It's a damn shame. I look forward to the return and the ol' devil being thrown in the pit!

    Oh death where is thy sting? That will be a good day!!!!!!!

    Bye for now.

    Rejoice

    Unscrews the pepper shaker tops

    (3/9/02 11:37:57 am)

    Reply Jim Stutz

    Does anyone know if he and Kathy had children and how old they'd be now?

    Cal K

    Likes the Lunch Menu

    (3/10/02 11:01:34 am)

    Reply Jim

    Yes, he and Kathy have two kids.

    Rejoice

    Unscrews the pepper shaker tops

    (3/10/02 11:13:10 pm)

    Reply Cal K

    I do not have a current mailing address or phone to contact Kathy and family. I knew Jim personally and Kathy briefly.

    If anyone has an address could you send to me at rrejoice@hotmail.com

    Thanks in advance.

    outandabout

    Has had one cup of Java too many

    (3/20/02 12:20:15 am)

    Reply Re: Jim

    I'm really in shock. I was in the same corps with Jim and knew him before that. I thought so much of him that I'm just numb to hear this.

    excathedra

    Given an Oscar, out of mugs

    (3/23/02 4:48:29 pm)

    Reply

    ezSupporter

    dearest jim rest in peace

    since i haven't seen jim in many years, and i loved him very much, i couldn't understand for anything how he died at such a young age

    so i was trying to understand to help me grieve

    respectfully and lovingly,

    Jim, i love you, thank you for being so good, i can't wait to see you again

    outandabout

    Has had one cup of Java too many

    (3/24/02 12:55:01 am)

    Reply Re: dearest jim rest in peace

    I feel that way too. I will always wonder what happened and why. I knew Jim, but don't know Kathy well enough to call her up and say "How did Jim die?"

    Maybe I'll just never know.

    Just want to say, "Jim I always thought you were a wonderful person and I'm so sorry that you are gone."

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    Kit Sober

  22. alfakat

    Stayed until Midnight yesterday

    (9/9/01 11:30:44 pm)

    Steve Abella

    I had been meaning to post this for a while. I cannot say exactly but between 3 and 4 years ago Steve fell asleep. He was a wonderful brother in Christ and a real help to my life in the early days when people really cared and ministered to one another the true grace of God.

    He is missed.

    Daggoo

    Likes the Lunch Menu

    (9/10/01 9:26:36 am)

    Reply

    Steve

    A truly wonderfiul, giving, funny, loving man.

    valerie52

    Likes juice squeezed not shaken

    (9/18/01 5:15:11 pm)

    Reply

    Re: Steve

    Wow, what a bummer. I remember him from the bay area early 70's with his long black hair and always smiling that big big smile.

    He will be missed

    valerie52

    HopeRich

    Awarded the GSC Golden Mug

    (10/8/01 5:28:12 pm)

    Reply

    ezSupporter

    Re: Steve

    ....and his maroon velvet sport coat to the ROA.... what a guy.

    I heard about his death about 2 years ago. I was shocked.

    I recently watched the old ROA 72 film and saw him on the stage - I'm glad he and others like Joe Maestri are on that film. It's almost as if they're still around when I watch it.

    Hope R.

    Kit Sober

    A GreaseSpot Regular

    (2/16/02 2:19:49 pm)

    Reply

    Re: Steve Abella

    Dear Steve,

    Miss you more every day,

    Miss your smile,

    Miss your kind and tender way.

    Dear Steve I know there's heaven,

    And that we will once again

    Hear you play,

    Hear you say,

    Jesus, I love you.

    (It's called "heaven" because there's these kinds of treasures thereangelkit.gif )

    Hopefully,

    Kit Sober

    California born

    Alameda born again.

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    Kit Sober

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