We here have all been victims, one way or another. Do we choose to stay victims? I stayed a victim for a long time, too fearful to dare to be other. But even that fear is a part of the growing experience.
Now I have something truly to share with those people who are escaping abusive relationships, fear of many kinds, and those who feel incapacitated.
I feel that all my life experiences so far, both good and bad, help me to help someone else. Life is not what I expected 20, 30, 40 or more years ago. Whose is, really?
Those who can't or won't learn from failures will be victims all their lives, with chips the size of skyscrapers on their shoulders.