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my family and peace in my mind is more important then the bottle
if i pick it up again i won't put it down
it is a disease
you did not hear pond
past the point of no returnit's real and a disease and only one way to stop it
is to stop-period
certain people for whatever reason are alcoholics
the reasons are becoming cleare
and the help is even clearer and works
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one person asked about prayer and meditation
i got to contribute a little
i hope i helped
the other questions and ANSWERS are helping me
you can give someone the answer
but they really already have it
it just brings it to the surface
that person can acknowledge or not
do or not do
no one can force that person
that person must do it themselves
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hi ex,
this shows me that he didn't do the program
didn't do the steps
and no aa doesn't turn out non alcoholic clones
everyone is different
what one does with it doesn't mean another will do the same
sure you can go and not change
it's not a magic pill
and great for you waterbuffalo
i'm proud of you
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whatever problems you have
will still be there after drinking
perhaps even worse
if there's nothing you can do about your problems today
then do something about what you can do
there will be more days to solve problems
little by little sometimes
but you can't think with alcohol in your mind
clear thinking
clearer solutions
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that's part of it bow
one day at a time
don't let yourself get hungry
eat
don't eat too much though..lol
then there's another problem
feeling lonely?
call someone
go shopping
do what it takes to not be lonely
except drink
feeling sorry for yourself?
look at what you do have
not at what you don't
friggin tv has people drinking all the time
it should be against the law
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the thought to have one
and that you can handle it will come
it's only a thought
don't let it grow to action
kick it out
nothing wrong with the thought
they will happen
it's what you decide
stay in control
call your sponser
i have a few numbers people gave me
without asking
they know
yes alcohol is legal
but lethal
more then cigs
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There comes a time in some people's lives that alcohol is no longer under control. These people cannot have just one drink or beer and be done with it. It has gone past the point of no return. To the point that one drinks until the bottle can't be lifted anymore.
These are people from all walks of life. I saw it.
Alcohol has now taken over and common sense or any sense of doing right is clouded and at the worst hurtful and dangerous.
There is nothing wrong with the person except it is a disease. Once considered incurable by leading Doctors and Psychiatrists.
But there is hope and no one can do it for you.You must decide that yes I have a problem. I am an alcoholic. I can't overcome it without help.
The help in the past was to lock you away in prison or a sanitarium. Unless you are still hiding it well.
There is help today, but you must want it and admit that the power of alcohol has overtaken your power to stop drinking. Your life is unmanageable if you can't mange to stop at one drink.
There is more then the twelve suggestions. Lots more in print to help.
But you must want it and want to see your life start going back up instead of down.
There were people from all walks of life.
From the homeless to executives.
People who looked in the mirror and got tired of what they saw,
and as they saw it getting worse.
There is no religious requirements and God is not taught.
We pray at the end-The Lords Prayer.
We want his will in our lives ON EARTH as it is IN HEAVEN.
I cannot and will not post from the book they gave me. Because you have to go there and see and get help. Besides the copyright thing probably.
But I can speak my mind. No one has a copyright on that.
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From restless, irritable and discontented to happy joyous and free in 12 simple steps.
See you on the road of happy destiny.
Seth
Is that what I said Seth, No.
You said that. You don't know cause you don't ask or listen.
There is no magic formula.
I have NEVER SEEN so much HONESTY and CARE
in one room in my life.
And it ain't the sobbing but straight from the heart.
No wonder Wierwille hated it, he feared it.
I'll post more as I see fit.
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The 12 Suggested Steps of Alcoholics Anonymous
We admitted we were powerless over alcohol--that our lives had become unmanageable.
Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.
Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him.
Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.
Admitted to God, to ourselves and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.
Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.
Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings.
Made a list of all persons we had harmed, and became willing to make amends to them all.
Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.
Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it.
Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God, as we understood Him, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and the power to carry that out.
Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to alcoholics, and to practice these principles in all our affairs.
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Sorry for not getting back to you sooner bowtwi.
Been busy with personal stuff, but,
thanks for the input!-
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a half truth is not truth it's a lie
and yes i see what you are driving at
for me the only good was that i read the bible
God put it together for me
and continues to do so
cause you can't live on yesterday's manna
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I also believe 'it' operates in us.
We do not operate it.
For it is God that worketh in you.....
NOT the other way around.
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9 what?
and what happened to thinking one thought at a time?
o i guess u mean manifestation(s)
so you can
sit
interpret
prophesy
word of wisdom
word of knowledge
discern spirit(s)
faith
miracles
gifts of healing
all the time...hmmm
agree with the list but not the implementation
as per twi
doubt seriously if very many experienced
the intensity it takes to see them happen
intensity or single mindedness
or actually being to the point that these function
and being that there would be a situation calling for 'it'
and you might notice that you left out other great gifts as well
by the way...welcome to GreaseSpotCafe
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While within the spiritual family of God there are people there from all man made churches and while I man still visit man made churches I know who I am in Christ.
which is free and not limited to any man made church,
The churches are within.
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Wondering what people use their computer for.
Personally I have a few forums I frequent.
Of course Greasespot too.
But what is it really doing for us?
My sons play games on line and get more out of them then me.
Personally I play chess on line at gameknot.com.
So kind of an inquire of ideas.
By the way, got tired of dancing,
now I'm cman, simple to the point.
That which is least.
Love clay.
aa
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disease - An abnormal condition of the body or mind that causes discomfort or dysfunction
alcoholism affects and is in the body and mind
the ignorance of this disease has caused many to continue downward
i'm here to tell you that there is hope
the cure is in the power that is already in you
the will to stop
to bring this out takes a will to see and learn
and to stop being ignorant
mainly honesty with yourself
and others
there is no pill to take
science has not solved the problem