OK, I'm back. Been sitting on a jury all last week. What a trip, but that's another topic!
Thanks for all the warm welcomes.
I met my first best friend at Emporia--we were assigned to be in the same twig, and have been fast friends ever since. Even in the early 80's, we had long, deep discussions about things we saw that didn't add up.
When we graduated, she was assigned to the western edge of IL, and I, just outside of Chicago. After that first year, I changed my assignment and moved in with her and another believer. During that year, with great support from Joe Guar!n!, but great disdain from others, we stopped shoveling the ABS to HQ, and used it to support the local Fellowships (self-governing, self-supporting,etc.) The heat we got from the goons was the beginning of our exodus.
We still talk several times a week, get together when we can, and even our kids are good friends.
The second best friend is my hubby, who I met on my interim year. Lotsa folks had different choices for a wife for him, but he fought for "US". We just celebrated our 20th.