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This one is from bowtwi in Did TErri Schiavo's parents ever try to get guardianship page 3. It didn't say he was a terror, sorry but didn't paint a pretty picture of him either.

Thats just it. I have all kinds of people oriented background but just don't know what I like to do. All my ideas seem to not be something that would at least make me a little comfortable.

And what motives were they may I ask? They were for him to get his rocks off by seeing it all the time. It was to desensitize woman so he could have his way with them. They were for him to control whatever he wanted in his sick life. Don't tell me he didn't show the movie of the dog and two women continously when it was. Year after year for years he showed this to people. Young people, older people. He didn't care. He was one sick puppy, mike and it stuns me that someone would want to follow after someone as sick as him. You want to be just like him? Go ahead!! Follow someone that abused and controlled and ruined lots of people's lives. You want to be just like him? Be my guest. I just pray that you don't bring down as many people as he did. You really think he cared about people? HA!!! He cared only for himself. He cared for all the people worship he had. He loved the control and raping of the women. He died a miserable lonely man. Is that what you want?

Dearest bowtwi, Happy wishes for your birthday and hope that everyone remembered yours. They forgot mine completely. wha wha. But as I'm getting older I think its for the best. I hope you have a great year this year and best wishes to you. Your a dear lady!!!

What happened with Terri could have been the best but I'm thinking about other cases. There have been a lot of people that have come out of coma's that were thought that they could never come out of it. In fact there is a new medication they are using that is proving this point. The brain is very complicated. I know of one young lady personally that the mother was told there was no way she would come out of it and to take all the tubes out. And she did have a feeding tube along with a breathing machine. She told them basically to stick it and was determined that this young lady was going to make it. The young lady came out of her coma and is at home and doing wonderfully. She still has a few problems but each day she is doing better. I just would hate to think that when I was married to my ex that he would have had to make all the medical decisions and there was a lot of money involved. I know my parents would have had more of my interests at heart more so than my ex. There is a person that posted here at gs that used to work at the nursing home Terri was in and she had posted that Michael was a terror. It appeared he did not have her best interests at heart. So you can say all you want about how wonderful this man was but we did have someone that had first knowlege of this case that actually worked with terri and most people didn't even acknowlege this. You are just going by what the media is saying. Sorry this is so long but I just really am bothered by this. It is not meant for argument, please. Its just something to think about. Not everything is what it seems just because its in the news.

I totally agree with you, Trefor!!!!!

Mike, I somehow don't think you have children yourself. It is natural to be concerned and fear for our children. It is a natural thing. This law that vpw kept on with us kept us under his thumb to keep our fears so we would continue with twi. We were kept there out of fear that something would happen to us or our children. You can be free of this mike, just let it go and enjoy life as God had intended it.

Gawd mike, obviously you never spent time with vpw or you would have known that he never moved on. He continuously showed that movie to people!!!! Boy are you blind!!!!

I really don't think it was up to the courts to decide. I think it should have been the parents deciding what would happen. I sure wouldn't have wanted my ex to make a medical decision about life or death while I was married to him.... He would have killed me for sure even if my brain would have been working a lot more than Terri's. This is where I'm coming from. That her family should have made the decision not a man that had started a family with another woman.

I hear ya, abigail, my kids are older so it would be perfect for us.

Hello there 2beenthere2!!! I had to laugh at the play on words!!! Athletes of the Spirit was a joke and everyone at the time in twi that knew better knew it was a joke. I remember a bunch of us laughing about how horrible it was. He just made a joke of himself.

Me, too! And it's his 1960's voice, not the deeper 1970's voice. :)--> George EXACTLY!!!!!! That is SSSOOOOO spooky!!!! I left in 1988!!!!!!!!

Thanks CM, bob is over at my daughter's place now working on getting her set up. From what I can tell is that you can upgrade from aol? Is that correct?

I thought about the apt and home buying aspect as I have posted here before but I don't think that is the line I want to go into. I want something that is very hands on that my whole family can be involved in.

I am so bored working in a factory and have always wanted to start a business or some way to make money. I know its there somewhere in my mind how to do it where to go whatever... I am great with people. I worked in management for years and was told I was a real people person. I am very good with the business as far as bringing the business in but the problem is I never know what business to go into or for that matter figuring out how to finance. I'm sure I'm not the only one out here that is thinking along these lines and I'm sure that there are others who have done it and are successful. How do I find the right resources and how do I go about getting something from my thoughts out into action? As some of you know I did own a bar, the problem was that we were co owners with another couple that put no money into it. ONly us. Ended up belly up with them stealing. I know I don't want to go the bar route again. There really isn't that much money in it. So any ideas?

:o--> Well you got me pegged right on what I was thinking. LOL Maybe in this instance they were wrong but what if they would have been right? What then? I would rather have caution than to kill someone that actually had thoughts and feelings...wouldn't you?

OMG belle, I went there and went to session one and after how many years? I can still hear vpw's voice. That is really creepy...

I don't know, belle, it says that there was half a brain. That means she still had half a brain. I still believe that something didn't smell right about the whole thing.

I must admit that ham is easier to remember. I will think of your sense of humor and remember, oh yes there is a real ham.... :P-->

Here in Minnesota some of the temp agencies offer classes on Excel. I know for sure that Manpower does in this area.

Thanks all, I talked to AOL and she can still hook up with a win95 so we are going to check it out tomorrow. This hopefully will work until she can get a better computer. Thanks very much!!!!

I am disappointed. How about just updating to 98 just for her to chat? I know, just trying...

And so do I!!!!!

I love the penny machines too... :D-->

Thanks igotout, its just that my daughter just moved out on her own and doesn't have that much money. I thought I could help out by at least getting this running until she can save up on her own to have a better computer. So its not easy to just upgrade to a 98 to get started? I had heard that its only about 35 dollars if bought on the microsoft sight but couldn't find it to upgrade.