Twinky

Just found this entertaining thread. My current cats are called "Tuxedo" and "Crypto" - Tuxedo because she is all-black except for a white V on her chest, white toes (only - not feet), and white whiskers. Looks so beautiful. Other cat is Crypto because she spent her first three months with me hiding under the cabinets in the kitchen. She is all-black. My previous cat was called Twinkletoes - he was quick on his feet and would sneak into the house if the door was ever left open. Not just my door - anyone's door. He also adopted my next door neighbour - she called him John after her recently deceased husband. Very good at giving comfort, that cat...he first started appearing on my doorstep as a tiny kitten when I was utterly devastated after TWI. I needed something to love...and Twinkletoes invited himself in. (There's a thread in Pet Memoriam or whatever it's called, RIP Twinkletoes). Growing up, we had a cat called Mr Pod (no idea why, named before I was born) who was also known as Podgy (he was a bit fat). Lived to a very old age. Very affectionate cat. Later, I had a longhaired Persian cat - he was grey in lighter and darker stripes round his body and a darker stripe along his back. I called him Possum because I had an idea that that's what opossums look a bit like. (I don't know why I thought that) A place I used to stay was occupied by a man with one arm, who had a 3-legged cat. We called the cat Tripod...and tried not to call the man the same name...! Oh, Twinkletoes was later nicknamed Twinky...and when I needed a name here, that's what I eventually settled on. So I guess I'm named after a cat.

JJ, you surely have stamina. You managed two years on staff? At that period of TWI's existence? That takes stamina or complete numbness - and you weren't numb. Or dumb. I thought at one time they might call me onto staff. The thought made my skin crawl. I had to go on some seriously long walks with God to get my head round it and accept that as a possibility. The thought of it still makes my skin crawl. you've got stamina, girl. Live life to the full. Abundantly, in fact.

Gotta agree with you, Ron. Nothing much seems to have happened. Nobody "gathered" and everything seems to be working okay.

Or a New Start / New Era party. I know...let's have one in a couple of days time, give us chance to get organized. Let's call it ... a New Year's Eve party. :smilie_kool_aid:/>:smilie_kool_aid:/>

Thanks, Kit.

Hampshire, glad to have you here and glad to hear that your life is back on track now and you're enjoying it. Probably most of us here tried most of the options - and then some! - whatever it takes to get you over it. It's good to live life joyfully. :eusa_clap:/> :dance:/> A happy and peaceful new year to you.

I still think that "The Subtle Abuse of Spiritual Power" is a scary book - like they had taken the lid of TWI and were analyzing the contents. But actually it never refers to TWI at all and refers only to spiritual abuse in other organizations. Regrettably we find ourselves in a rather large company of abusees. Enjoy Kahler's book, OS.

Great news, Kit. Hope it all works out for you. 90 miles is a long commute, but God willing, you will show yourself to be such a great worker that they will give you a transfer to a nearer location in a much shorter time.

Hey folks, I got myself a new computer and it works faster than watching paint dry like my old one did. So now I can run a few useful and/or interesting programs, one of which will be one or more Bible study programs. Just wondered which ones folks here found most useful, and why. I already use Online Bible Study Tools and several people have recommended Blue Letter Bible or some such name. Perhaps some programs are better than others. Ease of use and ease of comparison would be preferable to tons of commentaries. Thanks for your help.

Started by attendance at the Abbey on 24th for the traditional service of 9 Lessons and Carols; left feeling very jolly and joyful. Started Christmas Day by taking my (visiting) Mum a cup of tea in bed. Light breakfast. Opened the pressies under the Chrissie tree. Had a huge laugh at some of the things. Did some washing up. Made a sherry trifle. Did some washing up. Roasted a large lump of pork, which served up with many delicious veggies etc followed by a luscious Chrissie pudding. At 3pm, listened to the Queen's Christmas Message to the Commonwealth. Did some more washing up. Went to the Church where we were having an "Open Living Room" for anyone who cared to come. There were fewer people than we had expected, but we still had a good time. Ate and played games. Did yet more washing up. Came home and played some board games. Accompanied by port and Christmas cake. Did yet more washing up. Hmm. Seems to me there is a common theme running through this day...dishwashing. It was a very nice day.

Saw a bunch of people supposedly "Mayans" chanting and doing...whatever. They were saying it's not the end of the world but the end of an era or stage. They're probably as Mayan as I am. The usual anticlimax, though. Life goes on. It's a friend's birthday today. No doubt he too is pleased it wasn't the end of the world.

Some say it's the end of the world. Some say it's the end of the present era. Some say life will never be the same again. Some say it's a new beginning. (Wonder if the Malpaks are all ready?) What's gonna happen? Will anyone read this, or will everyone have disappeared? Methinks tomorrow will be not dissimilar to last Friday and the Friday before that. To be followed by a Saturday not greatly dissimilar to preceding Saturdays. If it really is the beginning of a new era, as the Mayan calendar appears to predict, what would you like to see in the new era that is about to begin? How would you like it to be different? (Always supposing you survive the changeover, that is...(LOL))

So you get yourself a FB account, don't friend many people, and use it on "spy" on exWayfers so's you can find out if you are likely to run into them. If they say they're moving to your town...you can choose to move somewhere else, or just stay out of their way. Some of 'em do seem to have got a life. Many others don't. JJ, you are probably a different person from the one you were when you worked at HQ. You're back to being "you" and not, perhaps, the legalistic b---- that you were required to be at HQ (if you were). Sometimes I wonder about the people I was in rez with. The ones I liked best, and who were the most fun, were - well, the most fun. Many of those disappeared early in the piece. I think those ones would still be friends of choice. The ones who were all holier-than-thou, most zealous and oh-so-pious (read: priggish) were still there when last heard of. I think I'd still find difficulty being friends with them. But hey, I'm willing to be surprised. Some of the staff members I sensed a tension in that I didn't understand then, but do now. The tension between being who they wanted to be, and who they were expected to be.

Very important Chrissie eating tip - but not for you: Don't forget to leave the required mince pie and glass of sherry out near the chimney, to refresh Santa after he's finished filling the Chrissie stockings. (If you don't. he'll take all your pressies back with him.)

You are funny, JJ. I laugh with you at the silliness of it all. But I laugh at TWI for the pitifulness of it all. I can't bear to listen or read anything from TWI or its droppings... whether individuals or other cult-like entities.

Got a friend who's 47. He's never had a birthday. And this will be his first Christmas. Why? Because he was brought up as a Jehovah's Witness, and JWs don't celebrate either (a) birthdays or (b) Christmas ... (a) because there is no record of anybody celebrating birthdays in the Bible and very few references to age; and (b) because it's a pagan festival. Sad. Even the hardliner TWI celebrates both - albeit renaming Christmas as "Ho Ho" but complete with tree and decs. I do think it would be a nicer custom to celebrate birthdays by giving gifts instead of expecting to receive gifts; many choose to celebrate by paying for a big party, which is a way of giving.

I call the years between when they kicked me out, and when I discovered GSC and started to recover my mind, the "lost years." Sure I was there, and knew what I was doing, but I was in such a daze, depression, down the well, call it what you like, lights on but nobody home...lights not really on at all...the lost years... Life is sooooo good now :dance:/> :dance:/> :dance:/>

Interesting, don't you think, that the "chosen ones" - the faithful remnant - comprising the tribes of Judah and Benjamin inhabited the area which became known simply as "Judah." The breakaway tribes, the apostates, those who mingled with the people of the land - the ten northern tribes - they called themselves "Israel." So, those people who now inhabit the land and claim Jerusalem as their capital city - are they announcing their apostacy to the world? Why not call the land Judah if it is inhabited by Jews? I don't see many of them calling themselves Gaddites or Dannites or Manasseh-ites. Nor do you see the members of those other tribes claiming their own homeland. The logical thought is that the other tribes are now masquerading as "Arabs" in general and Palestinians in particular. Could they trace their bloodlines back? I honestly doubt any of them could really trace their bloodlines back to any of the 12 tribes. I am sure, however, they could trace back reasonably clearly over quite a number of generations, maybe 7 or 8.

Thanks for your posts, Krys. Interesting. Very kind of everyone to donate needed items. What weather hits the US usually arrives in Europe about 2 weeks later. Not usually the same strength, but generally much wetter after the long journey over the intervening ocean. Hence this last week we have had torrential rain, violent battering winds and generally scary weather. Weather forecasts have been good at predicting when, where and what time; local officials have erred on the side of caution, but there have still been drownings (some, one might say, almost self-inflicted; only a total idiot would drive through a ford with a raging stream up several feet on normal). An elderly woman was found drowned in her house earlier today in St Asaph, Wales. Trees and boughs from trees have caused the usual damage, including landing on and killing people. Rivers have reached record levels and in some places preventive flood defences have been employed for the first time ever. Most unusually in my city, the sodden ground has caused a landslip which has threatened centuries old houses (so therefore you can see that such landslips are rare); the river, which regularly floods, has reached a record level since its flood defences were improved in the 1960s. This violent weather is now passing over mainland Europe. We can expect reports of flooding and perhaps avalanches in mountainous areas. (I'm not making light of the problems you have...but you're not the only ones to suffer.)

Thanks, Human :) And here is another recipe: Twinky Survival Recipe Take 1 bottle of red wine (Merlot is quite nice) Take 1 Indian Readymeal Optional extra: some variety of cheesecake. Place Indian ready meal in microwave for about 10 mins or as specified on wrapper. Pour red wine into glasses. Eat and drink. Serve cheesecake a little later with coffee and/or brandy. Best enjoyed with at least one other person. Particularly good on Friday evenings.

Ah, you guys... I'm still around. And I'm the best Twinky you could ever find. :)

I wouldn't like to roast TWI at all. It would give one very bad indigestion. At the very least. I'd like to roast ... a nice leg of lamb ... or some pork ... and some pumpkin and other vegetables ... and some nice potatoes. Roast them, and make something useful. Yum.

You know, don't you, that "prosper" doesn't necessarily mean financially? A better meaning from our current vocabulary might be "thrive" - or just "do well". Plants in the garden can prosper. After a visit to someone, you might be asked if it was a prosperous visit - ie, did you have a nice time together? It's another of those words that VPW took out of context - he added a 20th century meaning to a 16th century word. And he chose a word that is very emotive in our day and time - isn't part of the American dream to do well financially for oneself? To build up material wealth? But what are we exhorted to do? This is how to prosper, from God's point of view: And this is how to lay up those treasures, explicitly: I do not see much there, about accreting money, physical wealth, to oneself. Interestingly, although money is mentioned in the extract from Timothy, it's not in context of tithing to one's church leaders, etc, as covered in the booklet Christians should be Prosperous - but in context of giving it away and being generous and sharing with unspecified others.

I think Rocky has it. You can see what's happening, but you can't make up your friend's mind. You can be ready with a shoulder to cry on. Remember how difficult it was for you, at times. Remember how traumatic it's been for some people whose stories you have read here. Be supportive and maybe you can find some other support for her - support groups or whatever. It's clear you don't like the husband much. Try not to slag him off too much, but it would be fair to draw parallels between how his behavior differs from that seen in Jesus and his followers (you already have the lowdown on that!). Pray for them both. You don't know what things have really gone into the husband's make-up that make him who he is, and why this cult he's joined satisfies his needs - what he finds there that satisfies. Be non-judgmental, but firm about boundaries that you will accept in his behavior if he visits you. Or if the wife does leave and seeks safety at your house.

That might not be a bad idea. Will see if I can fit one in. We're doing this at church as seeking release from the addiction of "self" and turning to God/Jesus to rescue us from our addition. Alternatively, to our addition to consumerism, shopping, anything else. I think that some people really don't "get it" even though it's made abundantly clear that this series isn't just in relation to alcohol use. I suppose you could say that many in the congregation are in denial that they are addicted to self-love, or to keeping up with the Joneses, or whatever else distracts them from being fully committed in all their lifestyle to Godly goals.