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Other sexually assaulted males?


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I was sexually assaulted at HQ in the Fall of 1979, after VPW told LCM he needed to "loosen up" and male corps that "men of God" needed to have their sexual "needs" fulfilled in order to do the work of the ministry unhindered. To my two corps female assaulters, it was just "playing around". The term "loosened up" was used specifically about me. It took me 38 years to fully recall the assault, which  (the recalling) happened after "Losing the Way" came out, and my survivor friend helped bring back my memory. That friend did not know about TWI, but she is a very smart person, having co founded the National Association to Protect Children. She knew I was a survivor before I consciously did, from my actions in working for her group.

I know VPW's words endangered many women, but I wonder if any other men were assaulted. I can't help speculating if this was how Victor Barnard got started on his abusive path. 

 

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I'm very sorry to hear that Lifted Up, sorry you had to go through that.   TWI screwed up and missed an excellent opportunity when it taught but failed to strictly enforce God's will when it came to believers needing their sexual needs met -- otherwise known as "marriage". 

 

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II was never full on assaulted while in TWI. I was sexually groped by women a few times, though. I can't say it had much lasting effect, other than to give me a faint glimpse of what women must frequently endure.

 

There was an incident at ROA (Rock of Ages), however, that struck a chord with me. As I was lying half asleep in my tent, another man entered from behind me and assumed I was asleep.  He laid down and began to fondle me. For a brief moment, I thought it was a female friend. I rolled over, realized it was a man and punched him in the face a couple of times.. I don't suppose it could have hurt very much, as I was on my back and punching upward. He got to his feet and fled immediately. It happened very quickly, it was dark and he was turned away from me, so I don't know who he was. Now, this was back in the days when everything, including homosexuality, was a "devil spirit". It didn't affect me in a sexual sense but it made me give some serious thought to my spirituality. "Why didn't I get revelation? Did I have a spirit that attracted him?"...all that sort of thing. I was an Advance Class grad, after all. I couldn't and didn't tell anyone, for fear of being seen as "spiritually weak".  There was a real struggle in my mind, trying to understand why all this spiritual stuff just didn't seem to be clicking with me like it was with everyone else. A lot of unresolved thoughts and questions lingered in my mind. Well. I know it doesn't sound like much. I still remember it, though, even 50 years after the fact.

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