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I don't think you know me well enough to make a judgement like that about me, do you, MJ? Besides, lighten up I was being facetious.

MJ, These were girls that wanted to do good. They were 17 and 18 year old girls. They may have made an error of judgement and did it without thinking but they were out to do good for the community. I might have called their mothers to let her know and have said it had scared the living day lights out of me. But to go so far as too sue them is going way too far. I think the woman was just out to get some money. She didn't have a heart attack and had an upset stomach. Did it say she had to go the hospital?

MJ, now why am I not surprised that you would do the same as that lady did?... :P-->

I read this also and thought who would give their husband a wine enima? I mean how stupid can ya be? Unless you wanted to get rid of him.

sorry I used Seattle because that is where I'm from and I understand that colorado's culture is a lot like Seattle area.

I don't know Abi....I can see myself doing this when I was in high school. And, I have rang the door bell and not answered and left. It was May Day. And to some people 10:30 at night isn't too late especially for people towards the west. The news doesn't even come on til 11pm. In minnesota it would be an awful thing but in seattle it wouldn't be a terrible thing to do.

HCW, this is so hard for me since I was in the 11th the first year. Rochelle was a friend of mine that year. I never knew until now about the accident or her suicide. I thought we just lost track through the years.

HCW, I think I missed it...but if you don't mind could you tell us how you talked them into you staying? I went through something similar and tried but they said if I didn't leave on my own they would carry me out and the way it was said to me I believe they would have.

It seems if Rochelle's family knew this story they are the ones that could sue big time, huh?

Now this is something, talk about frivilous lawsuits!!! http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/6914824/?GT1=6190

It was lousy food but I sure did gain the weight. I went on what was called mrs. wierwille's diet but I think it may have been like the mayo clinics diet...I don't remember what it was but I do remember I hated breakfast.

I have two step daughters that are the most selfish and greedy people I ever met. Their mother always rescued them. This is how those kids turn out as adults.

When we were hitching back I tried calling Emporia and they would not except a collect call from me. I had to use my parents phone number to even get connected to them to let them know what a hard time we were having of it. I remember feeling stuck and empty. It was a very scary feeling. We had spent our ten dollars so had to work to get back into the campus. I was dazed and tired. (Considering what I had been through not knowing and totally exhausted) So I went back to my dorm room and got ten dollars out of my wallet. I figured others do it all the time. I felt it was ok with God considering what I had been through. I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that is what the wife and husband did because they were already welcomed in. One of my elder corps kept on asking me questions about where I got the money and where did I work. Finally I told her. She reported me and that night I was called before the whole 9th and 11th corps. (Remember I was still tramautized) I had to stand there while everyone else was sitting and be screamed at and belittled for what felt like hours. I felt like nothing. I balled for the rest of the night. I had no strength left. Early the next morning Pat L#nn called me into her apt and told me that I had to work for the money somehow and I would not be allowed to come back until I had the money. So I to town I went. I went door to door trying to find work. No one would let me do anything for them. They looked at me as if I was a homeless person. I must have looked horrendous considering how tired I was. One woman wouldn't let me do anything but she said she had had people coming over from the campus begging for work and she just wanted me to have the ten dollars. I was afraid to take it since I didn't work for it and knew that there would be a price to pay. The lady brought the phone to me and let me call pat. She was not happy at all but she let me come back. Believe it or not there is more to this story.

While in residence I always got really bad gas. It must have been the food we ate. I had to do my sit ups away from people to get my relief....

I suppose that twi isn't still picking up the bill, huh?

What I mean to say is wouldn't that be the first place to go? Get everyone to the hospital? Be with friends that are hurt and make sure everyone else is ok?

HCW, didn't anyone go to the hospital or even call these people that were there? I would think the first thing to do if they were so called family that is what should have been done?

gawd shell, I didn't know you were that old.. ;)--> Have a great birthday!!!!

Reiklady, Once a week wouldn't be so bad. Not as much wear and tear like every single day. My son has a paper route like that once a week but, he doesn't get that much money for it but perfect for a 14 yr old boy who still likes to buy candy and pop all in one shot.... lol The reason he doesn't get much is that we live in a super super small town and doesn't take too much time at all for him to deliver.

Gosh I thought I was totally healed from all this crap...I know most of the people HCW was talking about because they were close friends. I remember not wanting to go lead because of my total fear of heights. I have been that way because I don't have good balance. I have a hard time even going on ladders because of it. At dinner one time they called my name to go lead. We met the next morning to chose who we were going to hitch hike with. Everyone seemed to have partners except for me. So they put me with a married couple. The man was huge and kind of scary looking. I knew we would have problems with the hitch hiking part. His wife was really super mad at me because she didn't want me with them. She was horrible to me and would cry and say to her husband I don't want her with us. Not too many people would pick us up. It was very slow moving. One time a couple of trucks wanted to separate us all they were very scary looking. The wife was like that is great I will go with them. Not very smart. One truck driver picked us up we were very thankful. He started getting really weird with us. It was in the middle of the night. He stopped on the side of the road. He got his gun out and pointed it to us and we ran. Its been so many years ago its really hard to remember all of the details. But needless to say, after all the experiences we had we didn't make it in time. No one was there and we had to go back. I was very very tired and very hungry. I noticed that HCW said that if we didn't make it there was suppose to be a meal for us and then to back. There was nothing there. On our way back the wife wanted me to separate from them. In fact if I remember correctly she demanded that I leave them. I still stuck with them because I was so scared. I couldn't imagine hitching back by myself. One night we got a ride with a truck driver that seemed to be nice. I was so tired he offered for us to use the bed in the back. The wife got back there. When I entered she had a royal fit but I was determined. I knew I couldn't push myself any longer. The driver decided to pull over and I was sound asleep. Everyone was sleeping. I felt his hands all my breasts. I started pounding on his head. The wife woke up and had another royal fit about me. That is the last I remember. I woke up in the trailor part of the truck. They opened up the back of the trailor that I was in at the campus of emporia and I remember how light it was. But in between that time I have no memory...even after all these years. I'm taking a break but there is more to this story.

Ok I do understand where you are coming from and do agree with you, HCW. However, some people may not like to see the wayspeak as you pointed out that it is triggers for them. You come from an interesting perspective and do enjoy reading your posts so don't think I'm trying to get after you at all....just words of advice for you here at gs.

LOLOLOL that is a good one david...hehe Actually, I don't remember exactly what he said but it was just as good as flushing down the toilet....rubbish thats what it was, just rubbish....

Do you remember this suz? We were traveling in a 13 car caravan from seattle up through canada to the ROA. The guy that was leading the caravan had a meeting and told us he got heavy revy when he was taking a dump...great revelation, huh?

I just have to say it since I don't get to swear too much around here......lmao (means laughing my foot off or if that doesn't show up then its laughing my arse off.... :P-->)

I hate to say this but the bathwater thing sounds so cliche of twi. Do I really have to have a bathwater?.... :P-->