vickles

Well, here it is almost a year later and guess what???? We are in for a huge snowstorm. It started at 6 pm and is not suppose to end unti 6pm tomorrow evening. I don't mind snowstorms so much anymore as long as its a weekend and I don't have to go out. Its during the week and have to drive in it that is bothersome. As I get older the more I want to move to Mexico when I retire.... :D-->

Galen, that would be nice if I had the money then I wouldn't have gotten a mortgage in the first place.

I remember a fire drill in the middle of the night....some came out almost nakee....in the middle of winter that is. Well it doesn't sound too funny but I remember laughing...hehe

Now, pirate, why does this not surprise me? A lot of people have wondered if LCM is really actually working there or if it is just a front. But I wonder where the connections would be as I think it would have to be somehow connected to twi.

It is really sad, not to be able to express yourself. You have to stuff all of the feelings inside...one could go insane.

You gave me a great mind picture of an old lady that is feverishly trying to find all of her stash. My grandmother, when she died they found lots of stash all over her house. After most of it was found my cousin slipped in there with a flashlight, in the middle of the night to try and find more. He was caught....lol

That wasn't D@v* & Lol@ P@tt#rs#n was it?

LMAO But she probably was smart than most...doesn't she own her own house? And I'm sure she has been squirreling away money...so it looks like she won't have the same fate like the others.

daddyhoundog...that would be very nice if we could buy our own mortgages... :D-->

Thanks... :D--> Oldies, you have very good advice, but I don't think I said anything about not working. I work very hard. Your right, I totally agree with you that this is not a social place. But it is kind of nice to have a few friends while working.

This company also lets you know from all three credit companies. Each one may be different from the other ones depending on who reports where.

I got in the mail today that the mortgage company that just bought it sold to another... -->, So I had just one payment to them and now to the next. I get my credit rating all the time. There is a company that you can sign up and they send you any changes in your credit right away. Also, any enquiries about your credit...sometimes the enquiries are not anything I've applied for. The enquiries can also bring your credit rating down. If anyone is interesting in this company pt me and I will let you know the name and website.

Hey Rosie, I would be afraid if I were you when its time for you to be really old and frail. Its going to be nursing home time for you...

Thanks, mike, we're good.. ;)-->

Mike, I think your looking at Mr Hammeroni and making a judgement on his part...I've seen a lot of humor in his posts. Your thinking on this is a little bit like looking through rose colored glasses. These people are not interested in any kind of reconciliation on our part. Nor imho will there ever be. Now is that being negative? I don't think so, its being realistic.

You go Mike!!!!!!...... :)-->

Suz, H Bie****n was an @@s. He made my life living hell also!!!! Sorry for the derail...just had to add my two cents.

Paw, I had a newer pt that was taken off. I was waiting for a reply.... :(--> Oh well, I do understand, but just wanted to let you know it was just not the old pt's that you deleted.

ok I'm having problems with editing so I will do this again.....the site is called www.ripoffreport.com

I was wondering if anyone has experienced some problems with their mortgage companies. I was with ameriquest and had heard it was something to be wary of so had my house refinanced with a broker. I got a mortage from a company that sold it to a company that sounds really shady. Has anyone looked at www.ripoffs.com or something like that? Pretty interesting stuff. But what I noticed is that most people that have problems with their mortgage are people that are late. I have never been late. I hate to change unless I have to because this payment for the house is the lowest I have ever had.

Sorry I'm posting so much about this you guys!!! It just something that has been bothering me even before this happened. In life there are mean people we have to deal with and sometimes being naive to these situations backfire on us. In a lot of ways we really didn't deal with this sort of thing in twi on the surface until you really were in the thick of things. Then we left or were kicked out and still hurting from these attacks. I haven't quite figured out how to harden my heart from these people but still have the love that I want to keep. I definitely don't want to be like them....where is the balance?

Today, I was sent home early as some other people were going home, including my bosses. They didn't want this woman and me staying together because they were afraid of us fighting and the woman going to the main boss about it and getting me fired in the process. I asked why I was being sent home early instead of her and they said that I was the one that wouldn't have a fit about going home early....lol well yeah, I'm nice but I also need the money. But I decided not to fight about it since they have let this woman quit. They said they won't let her undo her decision so she will be gone in a while...thank goodness. But, my question is, is it good to be nice? It sometimes feels like it is not worth it. I have tried not being nice but I feel so guilty for the person that I was not nice too.

Rascal, You are not hijacking my thread whatsoever...this is the kind of stuff that I wanted out. I know if I'm going through this then there has to be other gs'ers going through this stuff too.

I totally understand, rascal!!!! I don't get it either how people can be so vicious to others that have been only nice to them. The only thing I can come up with is what my friend at work told me. He said the reason she is doing this is because she is jealous of my life and my children. I'm like, huh? I guess the grass is always greener sort of thing? Maybe she should handle my problems and my kids for a week and then she could go back home and be thankful...this woman lives in a big, really beautiful home. Something I can admire but not have in this lifetime, if you know what I mean. She has a husband that appears nice, and two beautiful children. But I do know she likes to be the center of things and wants people to think she is very giving and nice herself. Then when I started work people started gravitated to me because they said she can be very irritating...which I agree. She wants to know everyone's personal business and has no boundaries. I put boundaries on her because she was just way too personal with me.

David, you don't have to have a reason to stop by...bob would love to meet you!!!!! It is so hard not to say anything or respond. I also try to empathize with people like this and I think that it is something too twi'sh. I don't want to empathize with her or anyone that is so mean. That means if I do and she does decide to try and be friends I would do it and then open my heart to her and people like her...I've done it before and its like 'hey, I've been slapped in the face and it hurt, lets get slapped again!!!!'