vickles

Oh darn, I had a good response for you HCW and somehow lost it!!! I will try again and hope it will be as good... :(--> Some people are at different stages of healing here at gs. One stage is anger. I don't really see 'hate' here. Just people in healing. There are others that are letting us know what happened to them so others can be healed. I don't see a problem with that myself. Its perfectly natural and human. Some here have christian beliefs and others don't. We have our freedom to believe what we want. If I totally dislike someone or something they did you know what? I can do it. Wow, it feels so good to be an individual. I am learning that I don't have to be nice if I don't want to. Anyways, I'm getting off the subject here....I'm not getting after you, I just hope you understand that not all of us here are on the same page and that is ok. Your experience is different than others, that is ok. Just realize that if a person is angry it is a natural thing for healing as you did with your exwife. We have lots of people that come and go here. I've seen lots that have come here and 'healed' and moved on. Then some of them come back because they realize they weren't quite as healed as they thought they were. Or, as I, come here to see old friends and sometimes all of a sudden out of the blue I start putting more peices together on what really happened. So, HCW, don't despair its really ok...

Thanks for the warnings too. I realize that there is this problem that is why I posted this in hopes there are others that have done something that makes money. I'm not interested in get rich schemes as usually this is a scam. Anyways, I do appreciate the warnings, it is very important!!!!!!

Reiklady, I know of two different people that have tried the newspaper route. They ended up not making very much money. Not only the money but they had a lot of wear and tear on their cars. Plus, no time off. It was hard to find people to take over for them when they wanted time off. It was 7 days a week. They both said it wasn't worth it.

LOL rottie, I do agree with you. I was looking for something at home since I work a full time job during the day and I do have teens at home. I'm usually on the computer in the evenings and need to make more money so.....thought this was a good idea. Would like to be able to use my office skills since that is what I am good at. I will take a look at all that is listed here and see what happens. Thanks guys and if any of you have any more ideas or contacts I would really appreciate any kind of help. :)-->

I need a part time job. I would like to do some word processing in the home. I type about 90 wpm and have done some secretarial. How do I go about doing this? Is it through the internet that I find this? Anyone have any contacts? Any ideas?

One thing that I watch for in a date is if they send their food back and act too fussy. It completely turns me off. I would think it wouldn't look to good for a woman to do that either. Kinda makes the date uncomfortable. If I was going on a first date I wouldn't order salad. They never cut the lettuce in itty bitty pieces and I sometimes get too much on the fork. Then I end up stuffing my face. Finger foods are always good as long as it isn't messy. Chicken is rather tedius since you have to use a fork...never use your hands.... :D--> Hamburgers are always easy as long as you don't have too much on it. Don't have onions on it... ;)--> When you go out for a meal always let him order first so you know what price range to go by. End the date right away if he forgets his wallet and you end up paying for it... -->

I live in a very small rural town of about 200 or less...its getting less as the elderly die off. This year we have had more crime than any other. A man kidnapped his 2 year old son from his exwife and he was mentally unstable. We had helicopters and police cars with lights all over. Of course with all the excitement my son was going to the window waving at them. I nearly had a heart attack... Anyways they found him in a motel room and the 2 year old was in the car...this is winter time mind you!!!! We have a bar here (just about the only business besides the post office) and there are fights that go on there. Someone got knived there and went running. Dropped the knife so the police was going door to door to find out if any of us had seen it. Some kid was breaking into cars and taking stereos and he was caught breaking into the bar. Did a restraining order on a kid because she had threatened my son's life and was into withcraft/satanism. Other than all that we live in a very quiet town and of course nothing ever happens around here.... -->

Ha ha ha...now that was really funny...here I am in a quiet library and nearly choked and spit on the computer screen........

OMG You guys make it sound like vpw and lcm were smart men. The only thing that vpw was good at was being a con and lcm learned from him. Although lcm wasn't as good as vpw he did learn from the best con. But in my opinion the only thing that vpw was smart on was the conning.

skyrider, I love how you put things and have really enjoyed your posts!!!!!! Now to the answer to your question. I don't think vpw was that smart of a guy.

I really feel that hammeroni really has it right. They don't feel that they need forgiveness because they don't really acknowledge that they have done wrong. They are far beyond that. Mike, I totally understand where your coming from on this and I do agree from your standpoint. But, I don't agree that is where twi is coming from. These people are in it for the power and money. Not for Godliness or forgiveness. Beleive it or not these people can be nice at times if there is some profit in it. If not forget it. I used to be very hurt and angry about what happened to me and waited for years for an apology. In fact one of the leaders that did me wrong left twi. I approached him and he acted like he didn't even know me. Although, while in twi he called me by name for 14 years. I've worked out my anger and hurt by all this. I don't expect anything from them. And I have learned in life that if your hand gets bitten over and over again it is time not to put out that hand anymore. After how many years have the same leaders been doing this and you want more?

Man, have I done some pretty dumb things thinking it was 'heavy revy'... --> And the funny thing was when I was doing this I really thought I was being speeerrriiittttual, if you know what I mean.....

I remember vpw stating that the holocast never happened. It must have been when I was in the corpse.

I was in from 74 to 88. Its so hard to remember, I was in for 14 years and I beleive I moved 13 to 14 times going out wow 3 times, corps and moving to different areas to 'start over' whatever that means... -->

I have heard that if you open these e-mails you get more sent to you. I wonder if they can tell it was opened which means you keep getting them?

lol spraying?.. :P--> Yes, I agree that the 11th corps should be posting more than 9th!!!

Shaz, one reason that they would not is because it would open up a huge can of worms for lawsuits happening.

Dr. Rawlins is who he was referring to?

I was invited to an amway meeting one time, years ago...I didn't know it was amway...a guy asked me out on a date and that is where we met...I was ssssssoooooo mad. I let him know it too. I don't like to be deceived!!!!!

nice vehicle, linda!!!! I'm very happy for you...as someone posted before, please don't get snobbish and use two parking spaces.....lol

The step daughter still isn't speaking to me...oh well. But the grandaughter came by while I was volunteering at the library in tears. She says her mother hasn't payed the rent for quite a while, their phone has been turned off, and she is going to casinos gambling and buying toys galore for her son. For the first time in a long time I felt sorry for the kids but felt no responsibility. It felt good. I talked to bob and he has agreed that she must figure out her way. He agreed with me that we need to concentrate on this family unit we have now. We have put all our efforts and time into her and her children instead of concentrating on the kids at home. Thanks you guys, your posts really helped me make some decisions. I know this isn't the end of it but I know I don't have to deal with it personally and hopefully bob will follow through with what he has agreed to. About the life insurance, bob agrees to let them take care of it and if they can't pay then they have to let it go. But you never know what he will do when the time comes again. He has a soft spot for them. But then if he does I'm realizing that it would be his problem to deal with not mine. I can't get life insurance for him right now because his health isn't all that great. But we are getting that will done so that if something does happen these girls won't rob me blind. Which is what I see happening if I don't have one. I don't think I have ever met people like this before that are so greedy and selfish. I'm just the opposite and its hard for me to think anyone can think that way.

((((((((((((rottie)))))))))))))) my friend...I have missed you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Its weird, I looked into the site and feel sad for them...no other feelings with it...maybe I'm past that. But I feel that maybe they will have their eyes opened by finally having communications with others in twi. If this is their first communication from the 'outside' it could in itself be a good thing. I see no reason to ruin it by having it closed down with everyone from gs running over there...but that is your choice.

Way kool, Linda!!!!!!!!!!! :)-->

George-I agree, it is creepy....get this too, maybe you will agree with me on this being creepy...her son has really bad behavior problems...her husband had died about four years ago. One evening I was over at their house and her son was just staring at this picture. I asked him if I could see it...it was his dad in the casket!!!!! Now is that creepy? Galen-it was their mother who died that got the policy with the understanding that the girls would keep it up. So what do you think, should they be in charge or should we just let it go? Rieklady-you have some really good ideas, and I know your right....I will try it...it has been taking a lot of energy...when I see bob so sick I get more ....ed off. I'm trying to find a way not to be that way. Your suggestions are good!!!! I think whats happening is that I'm starting to sound like a nag. Its just that I want so much for bob to see what I do. And, actually this is not his real daughters, this is his step daughters. He raised them starting at the ages of 10 and 12, I think. They really have a big time manipulation on him that I haven't really been able to figure out why. Any ideas, reiklady on how to stop it? Thanks you guys for your advice, it really helps a lot...one thing it helps to is finding out that maybe I'm not that crazy in thinking this stuff is pretty creepy as george said.