Hello, Scott, and welcome to the Café. Have a cake from the great selection here, to accompany that coffee from T-Bone.
I was in rez early 90s and boy! did I learn some interesting language from Loy-boy. As you say - very far from Christ-like. Good on you for taking a stand and getting out to get some education. It's doubtless done you more good than endless sessions cleaning things that don't need it, for the umpteenth time, and all the incessant meetings to be told the same things over and over again.
Marked and avoided = badge of honor.
Here's your cake choices: